Quite the opposite actually. If a guy wasn't into you, he definitely wouldn't want to hang out a third time - unless you're smoking hot, then again, if you were, he'd be into you - nor would he invite you to hang out with his friends.
Take the invitation to hang with the homies as a sign that the guy might like you and is gauging how you get along with the friends to see if you're girlfriend material. He's bringing you into his circle of people. Guys don't do that with chicks they're not feeling. In fact, we don't even tell our friends we have certain chicks because they're not important enough to merit name recognition. Sad, but true.
I do have to wonder why women can't pick up on signs like this. My guess is that it's because you all look for all of the validation you can possibly find as opposed to accepting facts that are presented. Guys do this too so I suppose its just a people thing. And maybe you asked your question hoping that the opposite would be true.
Unless its too good to be true, it probably isn't that worthy of all the analysis and deductive reasoning. Just play it cool and go to the movies. Eat some popcorn and be fun.
If a guy doesn't like, you'll know. You might not accept it, but you'll definitely know.
Thanks for the advice, but unfortunately I already said no because I was busy that day.
Then ask him for a raincheck and hang out another day!
Good call. I had the same situation even trips to family get togethers; then 6 months silence. Same pattern for 5 years. What the crack is that?
for the most part it would either seem like he was trying to see how you get along with his friends, like panama said, or he's showing you off to his friends. pardon he crude metaphor, buti've found guys have this tendency, when they like a girl, to pee on her in public. i mean stake their claim and parade her around a bit for their friends and peers to see.