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If a man wants to find you, he will find you right? I deleted my email and changed my phone after a recent breakup. We still have mutual friends. If he wanted me back, it wouldn't really deter him if he had to search to contact me, would it?

In a movie, this is seen as romantic.

In real life, if you cut off any possible method he had of contacting you, and he's not a total jerk, he is likely going to take that as a teensy weensy hint that you don't want to talk to him at all. And, if he's got any basic decency, he's going to respect your wishes.

You sent a pretty strong signal that you want nothing whatsoever to do with him, and he's respecting that. Consider that door closed and move on.

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Brooke

If you don't want anything more to do with him, move on. If you're purposefully making it more difficult for him to get in contact with you in hopes he'll want you back, it won't work.

Tariana

Ditto. :)

silkysly

Triple that...

NuNuSays

I think that if a male really wants to contact you, then he will. But only within the scope of reality: mutual friends, facebook, phone, email... You've made it more than clear that you don't want him to contact you. You deleted him out of your life AND changed your number. Now, for you to wonder why he hasn't gone on some epic rom-com quest to find you is F**KING RETARDED.

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