What's wrong with cute? Since when did cute become a bad thing? Why isn't "cute" the default for a photo? Slutty should never be the automatic go-to whenever "photo" and "phone" are used in the same sentence. This photo will come up every time you call. Do you want him to see a potential girlfriend, or a booty call?
Also, other people can see this photo. His friends, family. What if you call when he's at Starbucks? Do you want the creepy dude sitting next to him to see you rocking cleavage and making the "duckface," that played-out kissy-face that every girl makes when she wants to look sexy in a photo?
Sounds like this is a guy who you are just starting to date, or one you want to date. Now is the time to determine how he'll view you. Why immediately put yourself in the hook-up category? This is the photo that he uses to represent you to the world. Go for cute and classy. A little flirty never fails either, but leave some mystery. Make him want more. As Ludacris once said, "be a lady on the street but a freak in the bed."
Also, other people can see this photo. His friends, family. What if you call when he's at Starbucks? Do you want the creepy dude sitting next to him to see you rocking cleavage and making the "duckface," that played-out kissy-face that every girl makes when she wants to look sexy in a photo?
Sounds like this is a guy who you are just starting to date, or one you want to date. Now is the time to determine how he'll view you. Why immediately put yourself in the hook-up category? This is the photo that he uses to represent you to the world. Go for cute and classy. A little flirty never fails either, but leave some mystery. Make him want more. As Ludacris once said, "be a lady on the street but a freak in the bed."
Why is it even a question? Thanks for the great answer. I hope she is not the only one that reads your answer and heeds the advice.
Now what i think she should do is just ask him to take a picture of him on his phone, and then just smile. It'll be cute, and he'll remember taking it each time he sees it.
I think its lady on the streets but a freak in the sheets :)
Really? I thought Luda's line in the Usher song is "...freak in the bed." But, yeah, that one is also good.
It is "Lady on the street, but a freak in the bed." Nick's right. Don't question. I know my Usher. That song takes me back. I believe that was eighth grade school dance for me. DJ's most requested :)
HAHAHA: As Ludacris once said, "be a lady on the street but a freak in the bed."
Made my day.