No. Your body is yours, not his. Everybody masturbates, including your boyfriend.
Thanks for the question.
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If I use a sex toy without my boyfriend, is that cheating?
Cary McNeal answered Anon's question on December 27, 2011 11:30 AM
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Yep, as long as you don't object to him jerking off, then he can't complain you're using a sex toy...
No one in their right mind would object to their partner masturbating. It's ridiculous and nearly impossible to expect a man to never masturbate, and it's a healthy part of either a man it woman's sexuality. If a man ever objected to my masturbating, even if I didn't do it often or regularly, that would be the end of our relationship (same if I was a man and she objected), because anyone who wants to control your sexuality like that has major issues.
well, I've had women I was with complain about it, and I know for a fact I wasn't the only one since heard some of my friends' girlfriend/wife complain about the same thing. So it does happen.
I don't doubt they do, but that's a major deal breaker on my part. It shows major control issues as well as tons of insecurity, and a total lack of understanding of the functions of the human body. It's also completely unreasonable to expect, and if they expect that what other demands would they make? That's one of those things that I hear men complain about but I truly do not understand why they put up with it. I personally have never heard a woman complain about the same issue, I don't know if it's just that fewer men make that demand, or more women just don't complain about it.
I can't speak for my friends, but in my particular case, they either resented that I seemed to be "choosing my hand over their body", or, they accused me of fantasizing about other women while doing the deed. But, yeah, I agree it is a control issue, or an insecurity. That's why they're my exes.
Fortunately my current is often in the mood, quite often, so its not an issue, but I am often away too, so she understands.
Cheating. . . that depends. . is your sex toy's name Mark or John?
Cheating involves doing something with someone else, not doing something to yourself. My girlfriend has a crazy sex drive and we spend a lot of time apart, so I bought her a vibrator cuz she wasn't getting everything she could out of her hands. She loves the thing, and she's used it on herself while shes alone, while I've watched, and I've even gone at her with it.
Nothing wrong with a little personal fun.
Oh, and if anyone has a problem with you getting yourself off they need to shove off. Even if you're fantasizing about a bus full of bikini babes, masturbation is nothing anyone should care about.