if you can't stop thinking about your ex after five years and they have moved on would you tell the ex that you can't stop thinking about them and would like a friendship or something of some sort to get over your feelings seeing that you didn't have proper closure and still unsure of why the break up happend?
Dan Seitz answered this question on
November 2, 2012 7:05 AM
Instead of being indirect about this, try being direct instead. Send him a letter, saying that how your relationship ended bothered you, and you'd like to know his perspective.
Beyond that, I'd start talking to a therapist. Five years is a long, long time to be stuck on a relationship, and you might need a lot more closure than just finding out why he dumped you.
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I would leave him alone & go straight to therapy. If he does reply, which is highly unlikely, it won't be the answer you are wanting. Break ups are hard & never fair. They don't get easier either. When I start to think of my ex, I trade that thought with something he did not so nice or a though of someone else. Please go seek help..., you are only hurting yourself if you don't.
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