He's either telling you what you want to hear in order to sleep with you or he's a serial killer.
Let me reiterate: he's either selling you a lie he knows you're desperate to believe in order to get himself a slice of your love pie or he makes pants out of human skin and decorative candle holders with the bones. You don't want to know why he has a closet full of Hamburger Helper.
You wrote me this question because, deep down, you want to think that getting someone to say "I love you" is easy. It's not. I guess it's plausible that the two of you have engaged in a deeply intimate correspondence. I've fallen deeply in love, and also had insanely hot cyber-sex, with women I've e-mailed and instant messaged. Sometimes, digital epistolary affairs can be even more intense than a purely flesh and blood mingling because so much of sex happens in the brain.
But in these cases, I at least knew what these ladies smelled like.
I would be super distrustful of someone who told me they loved me without ever having ever met me. They are either manipulative or extremely immature. In fact, that kind of sentiment so early, and based purely on a virtual relationship, is a borderline deal breaker in my book.
I've totally had guys that send me those kinds of messages on online dating sites and all I can say is it's really creepy. If you even have to contemplate the meaning of an I love you from someone that only knows what they read on a profile you wrote about yourself thats kinda scary too!
Excellent answer and oh so very true.
Yes girl! the guy is either very manipulative or just very new in the dating game (i don't think it's the 2nd one )
believe me! i have experienced with one guy, who told me in the 2nd week!!!
and we stayed together for about 8 months (no seeing), before i found out what a lieing, decieving creep he was.
good luck and always watch out for your best interest :)
It depends. If it's a dating site, yeah it's kinda creepy. But I've had some great friends online that I've known for years that eventually we got into long distance relationships :) And on occasion, I've met them and they're absolutely normal people. I wouldn't advise anyone to meet anyone online in person unless you take precautions. But sure, love can happen online. It's up to you to decipher whether this person is sincere.
I've had some sincere and insincere professions of love both online and offline. It's just as dangerous in a bar getting in the car with someone you don't know. Think of it like that. Get to know each other's background. Really dig and see if you can find anything that he might not want you to know. If you have friends in common, talk to them about it. They may know some things you don't and can clue you in. Use your head, just like in person.
But I certainly wouldn't drop a good online friend because they say they love you.
He could be an online scammer. I'd put telling someone I love you in the red flag catagory.
i agree. want's you in bed, dead, or both.
well we met on tagged and have been talking on the phone dang near everyday for about 2 months. the only reason we've never met in person is i'm scared to drive over the bay bridge and he doesn't have a car. But yeah i agree about the weirdness of an online "i love you".
The movie Fargo comes to mind.
"/ I'm in a long distance internet relationship. I didn't meet him off a dating website though and I waited a few months before getting into anything with him. We haven't met yet, but thats because he lives exactly on the other side of the world(theres a twelve hour time diffrence xD) But he tells me he loves me and I say it back. We've also had video chats and phone calls...so does this still mean he's a creeper??
I Met a guy online and after like a week he is telling me he loves me. The thing is we both want the same things. We both want to marry and have kids. I am actually 15 years older than him. We have talked on the phone and he has sent me videos via text. I really do like this guy and would love to know more about him. So am I crazy or should I stick it out and see where it goes?
I meet a christian man on line, he told me he is on a mission in haiti, we chat online everynite now for 2 weeks. He is also british from the UK, he has told me lots of things about his life and he is coming to see me like in feb or march. After just 2 weeks he tells me that he wants to marry me and that he loves me. He is much younger than me he is 40 and i am 49 he has never been married or has any children. I have told him things about me and my life. I have been married and have had 3 children. What do you think about this relationship? Oh yea I want to marry a christian man. I fill like I need to say I love you. I love care about him but not actuall in love with him. Again what do you think? Be honest!
I met a guy online on a dating site. Found out with a little research that he had a girlfriend. He then dumped her - at least he said. A week or so into the "relationship" this guy tells me he loves me. He lives thousands of miles away! I kept finding things out about this person online and he stomped me for it! I got rid of him once but he came back with a vengeance. All the "I love yous" etc. He kept his health from me as well, and when I asked about it the last time we talked, he freaked out and said the cruelest thing to me that anyone has ever said. It was done after that. Thank God. He does all sorts of research on AIDS and cancer online. Makes you wonder no? People are sickos out there! This one had me fooled for about a second or so. WATCH OUT! There are sociopaths everywhere and online is their favorite playground for obvious reasons. If someone spends all day online, something is wrong. If they do it with you, expect them to do it with everyone. If they keep health issues secret, expect the worst!
I met a guy online, and we have been talking for about 8 months now. He said a few days ago that he loves me. I really care about him, its just I don't know if hes just saying it. I haven't had cyber-sex or sent any nude pictures, hes only seen my picture, and I've seen his picture. He lives in the same country just in a different state, that happens to be far away. I just don't want it all to be a lie. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do?
i met a guy online 2 months ago, he is seperated with his wife because she rejected him. I really have deep feelings for him and he does for me too. we talk every day on skype, phone, texts. He lives in a different continent . He has issues with his ex wife though ie sell their properties for him to be completely free. But his grown up kids keeps on pressurizing him to go back to their mom but he has refused. I love this man so much cant get him out of my mind and he loves me that much too. he is much older than me. He is very honest and faithful. can someone advise me please
This article is funny but seriously true Facebook is full of nut jobs waiting to kill no shit i mean ready to make your bones out of their cigar boxes nut jobs. I had so many people on my friends list i did not know i had to clean them out so to speak and to block and remove them from traveling the fuck you zone. Well Men love to stalk women that is a key thing for facebook i even had women do the same shit that is freaking crazy. I met a man on facebook head over heels for me and i never met him the moron thinks he is god and i am his goddess well news flash pal i never met you before He tells me bs and a hot load of it wants me to talk to him on the phone i am a strong believer that no one ever meets on facebook to be friends you either meet on facebook to meet your love pie maker or be killed like Ted Budy style screw that i am so freaking tired of it so when i answer his tardish comments with this "I am sorry i am not able to get to my desk right now leave me a messaege." ignore there asses i even had a strange dude wanted a threesome at a bowling alley so yea freaking wackos are all around and they prey on innocent people to take advantage of physcos and serial killers and rapiest is more like it. My experience is this stay low or be some one mantel piece above their fireplace. I say stay low lack of information the better do not tell them your real idenity make some shit up to protect your self and your family who knows what kind of sick wind bag may come like Freddy Kruger and decapatate your head and make it a treat basket. I do not give out people any information like where i live screw that i do not need a 300 pounder whopper kinger at my door looking to be Hannibal Lecter. Or Wild Bill and saying rub the lotion on the skin like it is told. I would say FB is fun but keep the information on the down low for sure.
This article is funny but seriously true Facebook is full of nut jobs waiting to kill no sh*t, i mean ready to make your bones out of their cigar boxes nut jobs. I had so many people on my friends list i did not know.
I had to clean them out so to speak and to block and remove them from traveling the f*ck you zone. Well Men love to stalk women that is a key thing for facebook, i even had women do the same s*it that is freaking crazy.
I met a man on facebook head over heels for me and i never met him the moron thinks he is god and i am his goddess well news flash pal i never met you before.
He tells me bs and a hot load of it wants me to talk to him on the phone i am a strong believer that no one ever meets on facebook to be friends you either meet on facebook to meet your love pie maker or be killed like Ted Budy style, screw that i am so freaking tired of it.
So when i answer his tardish comments with this "I am sorry i am not able to get to my desk right now leave me a messaege." ignore there asses i even had a strange dude wanted a threesome at a bowling alley so yea freaking wackos are all around and they prey on innocent people to take advantage of.
physcos and serial killers and rapiest is more like it. My experience is this stay low or be some one mantel piece above their fireplace. I say stay low lack of information the better do not tell them your real idenity make some sh*t up to protect your self and your family who knows what kind of sick wind bag may come like Freddy Kruger and decapatate your head and make it a treat basket.
I do not give out people any information like where i live screw that i do not need a 300 pounder whopper kinger at my door looking to be Hannibal Lecter. Or Wild Bill and saying rub the lotion on the skin like it is told. I would say FB is fun but keep the information on the down low for sure.
Facebook is full of nut jobs waiting to kill no sh*t, i mean ready to make your bones out of their cigar boxes nut jobs. I had so many people on my friends list i did not know.
I had to clean them out so to speak and to block and remove them from traveling the f*ck you zone. Well Men love to stalk women that is a key thing for facebook, i even had women do the same s*it that is freaking crazy.
I met a man on facebook head over heels for me and i never met him the moron thinks he is god and i am his goddess well news flash pal i never met you before.
He tells me bs and a hot load of it wants me to talk to him on the phone i am a strong believer that no one ever meets on facebook to be friends you either meet on facebook to meet your love pie maker or be killed like Ted Budy style, screw that i am so freaking tired of it.
So when i answer his tardish comments with this "I am sorry i am not able to get to my desk right now leave me a messaege." ignore there asses i even had a strange dude wanted a threesome at a bowling alley so yea freaking wackos are all around and they prey on innocent people to take advantage of.
physcos and serial killers and rapiest is more like it. My experience is this stay low or be some one mantel piece above their fireplace. I say stay low lack of information the better do not tell them your real idenity make some sh*t up to protect your self and your family who knows what kind of sick wind bag may come like Freddy Kruger and decapatate your head and make it a treat basket.
I do not give out people any information like where i live screw that i do not need a 300 pounder whopper kinger at my door looking to be Hannibal Lecter. Or Wild Bill and saying rub the lotion on the skin like it is told. I would say FB is fun but keep the information on the down low for sure.