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iiF Myy BoYFRiieNd aNd ii CaLL eaCh oTHeR HuSByy&.WiiFeyy BuT He STiiLL CHeaTs WHaT SHouLd ii dO.?

Were you having a stroke when you wrote that question? Are you okay?

Also: just because you call him "husby" (gag) and he calls you "wifey" (barf) doesn't actually mean you're husband and wife.

I don' t believe I'm taking this seriously.

Look: if he's cheating on you, dump him.

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iloveujay

but we've been together for 2 yrs. and we say we love each other. and when i mention it he's says "baby your number one" those other girls dont matter. so like should i really leave him.?

John DeVore

He sounds like, oh what's the word? I think it's French. Ummmm. Oooohhh.

Right!

He sounds like a dick.

Judge a person by their actions, not their words.This is one of the most important lessons you can learn. It will discourage you from voting for politicians, but generally, it's a good way to live your life.

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If those other girls didn't matter, then he wouldn't be sleeping with them.

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Great answer! 'Are you okay?' LOL

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hahahahah "We're you having a stroke when you wrote that question? Are you okay?"- you're so funny John Devore!

MaggieG

Yeah, this question is a joke, right? Are you kidding? Your so-called boyfriend is a jerk and doesn't give a crap about you. Dump him. You've only been together for 2 years because you've put up with his b.s. for 2 years too many. Dump him. To me, it sounds like those other girls do matter to you. Dump him.

Oh, I think I forgot to mention it... DUMP HIM!!!

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OH MY GOODNESS, JOHN! THAT FIRST LINE GOT ME SO BAD!!! AWESOME.

iloveujay

yea i guess yall are rite i put up wit it because i love him in hopes that stuff will get better. we still go out and we do stuff as a couple i.e take pictures dates.he pays the bills. so i relly try to look pass it but he still sleeps around.! i guess its just wishful thinking though.!

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He pays the bills? Good lord, honey you can pay your own bills. And as for sleeping around, your not just risking your heart but your health! STDS mean anything(practice safe sex for the love of god)? Please this isn't love, this is way too harmful to you. Love yourself first.

I think, this is all too common and it really disturbs me to see young capable women sell them selves short.

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You must be soooo young.... Let it go honey, don't waste your youth and beauty on someone who clearly doesn't deserve you .

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Hon, show some backbone. You're a wonderful, unique individual and deserved to be treated that way. Kick that jerk out on the curb for the next trash pickup day! He doesn't deserve any girl, especially not you!

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While learning to love yourself, you should learn a thing or two about writing and grammar because you honestly sound retarded. A decent guy isn't going to be attracted to for your apathy for the written language, that's for sure.

rxyhts

amen

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While learning to love yourself, you should learn a thing or two about writing and grammar because you honestly sound retarded. A decent guy isn't going to be attracted to for your apathy for the written language, that's for sure.

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Hey its easy to criticize someone from behind a computer screen!! The point isn't that she is using bad grammar, its that shes obviously in an abusive relationship !! Lay off!

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Seriously girl get over him NOW before you end up preggers or worse! Would he really be a man and 'man up' to his duties if he became a father? Let alone would he let you know if he had a case of herpes or wait til you had symptoms and then blame YOU for it? Worse yet what would he do if one of those other ladies became preggers themselves? What would you do if any of those thigs happen?

Talk is very cheap ANYONE can say they love you or give you a pet name. Hell all you have to do is put some cute or sweet word in front of the word tits and you have a pet name for almost ANY lady. Like sugar tits or sweet tits for example.


So best thing you can do is this
1) learn how to pay your own bills, if you guys are currently sharing space pay for YOUR part only

2) Get on with your life ASAP, ask him to move out, break your lease if you must, room with a friend, just something to get him OUT

3) Get you on track for you, nothing good will happen til you get good going for yourself after that go have fun and hopefully next guy you met won't be a sleaze who has to hump other people but use you for 'home'

Megan

Hon, he won't stop. Mainly because you are still with him. As long as you are there, with him, he will take advantage of you. If you leave, and I mean really really leave, that just might straighten out his behavior. However, don't count on that.

Men can be like children. They will continue to do the most annoying and shitty things as long as you let them.

The population of America is almost 400 million. About almost 200 million of those people are adults. Half of that 200 million (100 million for you with math issues) are adult men. So you have managed to score 1 asshole out of a 100 million men. So get rid that that one asshole and go fish. A non asshole in a school of 100 million must be somewhere in the pond.

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I like this!

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Great advice Megan, but judging from her picture, I don't think this guy is an adult. She looks really young, and I'm guessing (rather praying) he is too.

Sweetheart, you have got to get yourself out of this situation. Your life is just beginning; you don't need to be tied down to this clown. He's already brought you heartache. What's next? A baby? HIV? When you are young, it's easy to think that no harm can come your way - trust me, I've been there, but that was many moons ago - unfortunately for you, things are a lot different for you than they were for me. If you stay with this guy you are playing with fire. Teenagers, girls in particular, are more susceptible to contracting HIV than any other age group in this country. When he sleeps around, he is putting your life in danger. He may pay for things, but at the end of the day, if he's cheating on you, is he really looking out for what's best for you? Plain and simple: You don't deserve someone who doesn't value your life. Your life is full of infinite possibilities; don't risk cutting it short by sticking around with this idiot.

Megan

Hon, he won't stop. Mainly because you are still with him. As long as you are there, with him, he will take advantage of you. If you leave, and I mean really really leave, that just might straighten out his behavior. However, don't count on that.

Men can be like children. They will continue to do the most annoying and shitty things as long as you let them.

The population of America is almost 400 million. About almost 200 million of those people are adults. Half of that 200 million (100 million for you with math issues) are adult men. So you have managed to score 1 asshole out of a 100 million men. So get rid that that one asshole and go fish. A non asshole in a school of 100 million must be somewhere in the pond.

VKnoxville

You look SO young...that is all.

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these questions answered make me wonder why the hell my questions havent been answered lmao.. retarded

Kate McG

Good god... This question makes me want to weep and then die. When is it ever a good idea to write like that? My dyslexic seven-year-old niece writes more coherently.

Also, if he's cheating, dump him. Duh.

ThisBitch

HAHA! THAT FIRST SENTENCE WAS FUNNY!

natvone

i really hope she took heed to that excellent advice... but that first line in his answer is HILARIOUS...

rxyhts

amen

flaka661

first line is funny haha...and yeah girl dump his ass!..and i agree with the other person who wrote questions like these make me wonder why the hell mine haven't been answered =/

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What a lovely day for a 1978921! SCK was here

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