What is wrong with you? Nothing at all.
Your libido is your libido. There is no right or wrong amount of sex to have per week. There is merely what you are comfortable with, and what you are not. If you are comfortable with once a month, well, that is what you are comfortable with.
Be honest with your guy. If you are not in the mood, tell him. If you are in the mood, ravish him without asking. If you could possibly be in the mood, let him know and see how effective his foreplay is.
Sex is meant to be fun, you know? Not stressing.
Just curious, are you being satisfied when you are having sex? Is it just sex or is he making love to you? Most women need an emotional connection in the bedroom. If you’re not getting it, I can see why you could not be as interested. Just a thought…
Never force yourself, if you dont feel like it tell your man. Sometimes sex doesnt have to be the main goal, you can cuddle, kiss or just have a romantic moment with your guy. No woman enjoys sex if she is not ready for it and if your man wont take no for an answer, then I would reconsider such relationship, he must respect your boundaries. There is nothing wrong with you.
If you are taking the birth control pill it may affect your libido, discuss with your doctor. Using another form of birth control DRASTICALLY improved my libido.
What did you switch from? I've been taking various forms of the pill (Ortho, Yasmin) since I was 18 and I feel like I'm hardly ever in the mood for sex. I'm wondering if switching to another form would improve my libido.
What did you switch from? I've been taking the pill (Ortho, now Yasmin) since I was 18 and I am wondering if switching to something else would help me out.
Actually... we switched to condoms. Which was fine.. but since I am a married woman with two kids, my husband has since had a vasectomy. I used Ortho and had been taking it since I was 17 due to painful periods (except during pregnancy and nursing my two kids). I am now 37. I am telling you... I went from pretending I was asleep to avoid sex, to crawling on top of him every night, sometimes waking him up during the night. It has been more than two years and my libido has remain high, usually every other day plus bonus morning sex on weekends.