If you're at a place in your life where you just want to have some fun, then what are you waiting for? Run over to his house in lingerie right now, or SEND HIM A LINK TO THIS PAGE and say "hey, that's me."

As a rule, guys don't need a ton of provocation when it comes to gettin' freaky. And if this guy has literally said to you, at any point, the words "I'm not looking for a commitment right now," then he sounds like he's good to go. That's essentially man-code for "I will have sex with you if you expect nothing else from me."

However, this general rule does have a few mitigating factors that may be coming into play, which is why I suggest you quickly run down this checklist:

1. Did this guy get divorced recently? Was it messy? Could he be too turned around right now to even think about a sexual relationship?

2. Is there a chance he's just not attracted to you? There's a reason he hasn't made a move himself, and it could always be lack of interest. Painful to contemplate, but less painful than languishing in doubt for months to come.

3. Did he lose his penis in the war?

If you answered "no" to all of these questions (or better yet, if you've got a history of playful flirting of any sort), then I'd say it's worth the risk. Just let him know; lay it on the line, and be clear that you're not looking for a commitment either.

I'm not going to lie; if he says no, the next few times you see each other will be awkward. Whether you take that gamble is up to you. But it sounds to me like the odds are more or less on your side. And by odds I mean "men like sex."