Nah, it's cool. We answer anyone's questions, and yours is one of a (rather worrying, to me) trend on body image that has shown up in my questions in the last couple days.
Trust me, cup size doesn't matter in the least.. It is another irrelevence, thrown out there by the net, TV and magazines. You look at the models, or the anchors, or your brother's GIS search history and think "I can't compete with that!"
You are 100% wrong, as any quick search of men's sites will tell you. Look at FHM, if you really, really must. Their top 100 sexiest women of 2010? The majority of them are B cup - C cup max. Hair colour all over the place. A few of the higher ranked sexy women are not exactly what you would call thin either.
Sex appeal has very little to do with your body shape. Nearly all to do with your attitude. If you are happy with yourself and self confident, you appeal to guys. Full stop.
You don't have to look like a model to get dates. If you did, there would be a lot of very lonely people out there. Yet, there are surprisingly few.
Though, at your age, self confident women are a touch intimidating to guys of the same age. They'll grow out of it. No reason to lower your standards just because they are a bit slow. OK?
PS - Question selection today was hard. I'll be answering a couple of others that came in today during the week. And the lady who asked about speed dating - watch for the blog post please.
I remember that age. It sucked, but it did end, and the boys did grow up (to a point at least!). Just remember that they are just as insecure as you are at that age. Also, dating an older guy isn't a bad idea if you're looking for comparable maturity levels, keeping in mind that there is older, and creepily older. If you have sensible parents, and they are freaking out about the age difference, take a long, hard look at the relationship.
Sweety, there's a whole multitude of people out there for us. Really. What one man does not like another will love. We are all different. It's just about being open to the possibilities. I am nowhere near a model but I am never wanting company.
Like those commercials say, it really does get better. People calm down and settle more comfortably into who they are. That includes men. We all look back on our younger years with a collective groan at our short sighted stupidity.
I say quality, not quantity. Enough to play with, not enough to suffocate in.