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I'm a self-assured person, and am confident in myself, however, there's 3 total different selves who have their own thoughts and their own preferences. Be true to myself sometimes means different things, and there are some conflicts when I thought of the man I would (hopefully) marry in the future. What should I do?

Having different selves is common. Everyone does it to a certain extent - the you hanging out with friends is not the you at the office, or the you that is with your family. Some people just separate them more than others.

So long as they are not completely separate - they share core identity and memory - you know when one personality hands off to the next and you know they are all there, there is nothing wrong with it. It is when you start losing blocks of time and can't account for them or they start quarrelling fiercely that it is time to get thee to a speciallist for help.

Since there are three of you, majority rule usually works as a way to handle things, with your alpha personality - you - getting priority. It will be a bit like finding a guy while having to listen to your Mom and Dad and siblings and consider their wishes too - difficult but doable.

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It's "separate", not "seperate".

Mystery Man

Thanks. That is one of the five words I invariably spell wrong.

chrissie1101

good advice. i always go by the follow your instinct rule when all else fails. there's the mom me, the PTA president me, the writer me, the daughter me, the sister me, the business owner me, the friend me, oh and sometimes i even get to play the role of girlfriend me lol each role doesn't fit with all others all the time, but it can be hard to turn off the head that's running on deadlines and lunch boxes when getting ready for a date or needing to take my grandmother out on errands. just follow your instinct, it is the same instinct for each of your selves, and you will always stay true to your higher Self. kudos to you for being so self aware too.

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Great example of how complex humans are. Yes, trust your gut. Your intuition.

WeirdFemale

Humans are indeed very complex, and this is one great answer. I think it might be confusing to have voices in our head all the time, but like Chrissie said, same instinct and the wisdom is there. I might act differently depends on the time one of my selves come out, but I am going to put my priorities straight by using different methods to take care of things, beside, it does keep things entertaining. Thanks MM for answering this question

XD Knowing all my selves are there and accountable for the times in my life is indeed VERY important xD

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