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im a webcam model and a lot of my surroundings kind of know what i do. now all guys i know just look at me as a girl they want to have sex with. how do i change that and find someone that actually wants to get to know me?

Interesting question.

The simple solution? Either stop being a webcam model or if that doesn't suit you, stop letting people you know know what you do for a living. You essentially need to find a new circle of individuals to hang around.

But first, what the hell is a webcam model?

*researching*

Oh, THAT'S a webcam model.

I find it sort of curious that you are bothered by that so many people want to have sex with when your job is to sell sex. That's like the President being pissed that he has to make a decision on health care or fix the economy. It comes with the territory. So option B is looking a lot more like your avenue.

You need to TOTALLY separate your online life from your real life. And yes they are two different things. For instance, online, I'm Panama Jackson, Sexxy Man Extraordinaire and Mr. I Can Make You Famous. But offline, I like to play with puppies, read Tolstoy, and shop at Target. Now, I tend to bring my sexxy with me everywhere I go, but there's nothing I can do about that.

Hey, I didn't ask for this life.

You on the other hand did. So you need make sure that (going forward) you keep all the sex to yourself and make sure that any men you meet - not online - have to learn who you are and don't make any connections that will get in the way of that. If your big beef is that all men who meet you just want to taste the rainbow, well then you need to remove the rainbow.

Or just go to the bookstore and look sexxy. Sexxy women that read are always attractive to men who read. All men who read aren't good people, but at least you're in a bookstore and folks who just want sex don't just up and go to a bookstore.

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nickie

I googled what a webcam model was, and I still couldn't figure out what the hell it is..

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I googled it to and from what I got, it appears to be someone who records themselves doing sexual things to post online. Hence, people wanting to plow the question answer.

bgirl

Why do you guys always answer the obvious questions? I mean is she kidding..she can't figure out why guys just want to bang her and nothing else?

Dektora

Well, that's not exactly her question now, is it?
She did not ask "Why do they want to have sex with me?", but "How do I get men to want to know me for who I am instead of just wanting to bang me because of my job?"
She knows perfectly well why, she just want to know how to change her situation.

As for answering the obvious questions, hum, that's an interesting point of view. We can imagine that the guyspeakers aswer questions that are obvious to them. Otherwise, they wouldn't be able to aswer at all.
I guess that each questions is obvious to some people and not so much to others. This one may not be the most challenging, it doesn't mean it shouldn't be answered as well.

Panama Jackson

You'd be amazed at how many "obvious" questions we have. You think THIS is an obvious question. Try reading 4K questions that say, "my man never speaks to me. but i love him. does he love me?"

And I'm not joking. At all.

Usually, I try to go for the questions that DON'T include "does he love me". Once I filter out those and "what is he thinking?" i'm down to about 6 questions.

lol. and i'm only half joking. do not overestimate your fellow peoples.

GrapeJellyGirl

When I was a hooker...big eye roll here...I could never understand why my John's never asked me out....


Puhhhlllease....men want sex with women is the first lesson here! And they are going to slot you in the category of casual and easy if YOU SELL IT....perception is reality for most men.

No man looks at a stripper and thinks "I wonder if she is a good person, I would like to get to know the real her?" okay, maybe he wants to know you're not psycho but mostly that is only after he bangs you.

Okay, enough cold water....

bgirl

Im going to defend my comment..GrapejellyGirl...I did not roll my eyes becuase even though you probably never told anyone that you were hooker...you know that guys want sex , like you said if you sell it..they will cum* (excuse my pun...i couldn't resist),
So miss nsylvia55322' knowing full well that her job is to sell sex, and she decides to advertise it by telling people and she now wondering why...I mean how she can change that perception?

Its obvious becuase 1. She could quit her job, 2.Not advertise it, 3. Do not mix business and pleasure.

But you're right...clearly wasn't obvious to her.

Oh and thank you Sherlock Dektora. Doesn't matter how she pharsed the question....she getting the same answer...guys will still want to sleep with her no matter what changes...hopefully she realizes her job is the reason she can't change in their eyes.

Now can you 5 gentleman answer one of my questions thats not obvious to me? And I don't mean this one.

Nautilus

Yeah...I've been sending questions and haven't receive any answers. You can even reply a simple...OBVIOUS.

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She's a webcam model, not a hooker. Webcam models do online shows, but that doesn't mean they go around having sex with everyone. It's just web cam. Being a webcam model doesn't make you easy.

I'm with you sweetheart, from a fellow Cam Girl

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