Based on what your saying, the short answer is you probably can't keep yourself interested and monogamous, so it might be a good time to get out of this relationship. The fact that you have problems with the size of his manhood and your mind is wandering, spells serious trouble for this relationship.
Sometimes two people aren't a good match as a couple. They tend to stay together far too long thinking they can work things out when, for whatever reason, they were never right for each other in the first place. As they say, you can't fit a square peg in a round hole.
As far as not wanting to hurt the guy, seems like cheating on him is going to hurt him a whole lot more than just breaking it off with him. Don't you agree?
Interesting. I agree, even though it doesn't really answer the question.
Although, how do you answer that question? Who really knows what is the right person for this girl.
She may want to give communication a shot first. Guy's love to talk about sex. In fact, someone here already did a great post on how to get better sex out of your man. As long as you do it in a non-judgmental way you may find that he turns around and becomes a better lover and able to meet your needs.
Here it is:
http://www.guyspeak.com/answers/my-boyfriend-and-i-had-sex-for-the-first-time-and-he-asked-me-how-it-wasbeing-put-on-the-spot-like-t/
If you "deflowered" him then how is he a virgin??? So confusing!. I think you meant to say you took his virginity, yes? Btw I had no idea "deflowered" was used to refer to sexually active people who lived in years after like 1852, especially guys... anyway, I think you should try to spice things up in the bedroom. There are plenty of positions that cater to guys that are less than well endowed, I woul suggest checking out Cosmopolitan magazine-the website. Its not impossible for a small guy to please you!
However, if its more than the sex thats bothering you, which it seems like it is, then you need to consider breaking up with him. I know you dont want to hurt him but its much better than cheating on him.
fake question. every woman knows it's not about the size of your package: unless it's a microdick, it's all good.
then again it might be by a guy. i've never been either gay or guy, so i don't know if size matters. *shrugs shoulders*
anyway, kudos for M.M!
"Short" answer...bahahahahaha...."square peg"....oh my side...ha ha ha, you're killin' me.
Size can matter if you are used to bigger, or your vag is all stretched out :-P.
If you have to force yourself to have interest, then maybe it's not meant to be. How long has this relationship been going on? Have you really given him a shot? I mean, he was just a virgin... he's learning still!
Ummm have you ever taken a sex ed course??? Its not possible for your "vag to be all stretched out" permanently from sex. (if you thought this then you should face-palm yourself now Lol) The vagina expands when you're turned on and having sex, and after sex it will go back to the same size. The only thing that can effect the "tightness" and if so minorly, is having a baby. Doing kegel exercises will help this. I do kegels all the time anyway cause I like to keep it tight! The vag is like a muscle ladies... exercise it.
Wow, very interesting...
oh RedRockLass, the last thing I wanted to read was "or your vag is all stretched out..." ewwww!
I'm a young, childless woman, a stretched out vag is kind of my biggest nightmare.
=)
BTDubs, well answered, Mystery Man.
What do you want from a relationship - are you getting it? does he make you happy? if the only probablem is his size - try to work around it - if that just causes too much animosity then end it - but don't keep it dragging for too long - you'll hurt him more that way.
I'm with MM - you're probably going to let your mind wander & if it gets the better of you let him know it's over. I did it - guilt filled me for a while but i'm focusing on making me happy & you know what - there's nothing to regret there...
Hahaha this is ntetesting microdicks LOL stretched out bag. Wooooa!