I'm going to take a wild guess here and assume alcohol was involved in this question.
Sorry to hear you're having a tough time. My advice? Look for guys in places where people don't hook up. Start working your network of friends. Try volunteering. Try taking an adult education class. Basically, go places people make friends: Worst comes to worse, you'll have some more friends.
LOL on the wild guess. I had to check in the dictionary if there was such a word as "brating".
Maybe the asker's first language is not English. I actually spot common mistakes non-English speakers make.
That said I agree with the rest of the response.