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I'm not particularly private or anything but a guy I've been seeing tells his roommates almost everything that happens between us. Is this a bad thing?

Bearing in mind both questions you sent in - would you let his room mates watch? 'Cause that is effectively what you are doing.

There is possibly one factor that would make this make sense, in a strange way. How experienced is he? If he is not that experienced, the whole euphoria of "holy crap, I got laid" could explain his talking out of turn.

It is still a betrayal of trust.

Sure, maybe you don't mind him talking about your sex life to his room mates - but what about the other stuff? The things you tell him when you are sad, or upset, or vulnerable.
Can he keep his mouth zipped about them? I doubt it.

Bad - yes. Tacky - certainly. A dealbreaker? Up to you. I'd find another FWB, myself, and dump him, but then again I like my privacy.

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Sasha Cine

Perfect response, couldn't agree more. Before though, I couldn't help but wondering if it means he likes me but since you asked if he was inexperienced, I reconsidered. He is two years younger and had much less partners than I have. Thanks for the insightful answer! :)

Mystery Man

I plead food overdose for the lack of sarcasm!

Nah - glad I could help.

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