Whoops! Doubleplus ungood! Way to kick him hard when he is down and make him feel totally useless and pathetic.
Nah, am teasing you a bit, but now you know exactly how he feels. Ashamed and helpless, almost afraid to talk to you.
Most every guy fires early once in a while, it is one of the unsung "joys" of being a creature with external sex organs that run on blood pressure, excitement and touch. No big thing, as long as it doesn't become a habit, yet guys really get upset about it.
Fortunately, it is easy to make him feel better. Seduce him into a rematch before he has time to brood about it too much. After all - he did leave a lady hanging, and that is always unacceptable.
It's always unacceptable to leave a lady hanging? Wow, I've been having sex with the wrong guys for sure! I've been with 2 separate men in my life, but I've only actually been 'taken care of' 3 times. Period. Ever.
Boys. Go find a man. :)
What if he never comes at all? Does that mean he's not turned on enough?
Not at all. Or, well, maybe.
Some guys have a hard time cumming during intercourse, my feeling is because they're more used to masturbation. No big, the only solution is to practice and experiment until you find something that works.
The other possibility: Sex is a very mental experience. Any significant outside emotion or stress can get in the way of sexual pleasure. The only way to deal with that is be understanding, and talk it out if they feel up for it. If it happens every time, then there's something big going on in their life, and it is probably getting in the way of other parts of the relationship too. They should at least clue you in. Depending on the level of commitment between you two you'll have to decide how to handle it.
The only wrong way to have sex is to have sex without doing your best to please your partner (within your own boundaries of course.) Make sure they're getting what they want, converse, experiment, be open minded, and demand the same dedication back.
#WIN - Brave New World english ("doubleplus ungood")
^ #(auto)FAIL - wrong book *facepalm* (always seem to mix the two up)
#Lose? - 1984 Newspeak
"After all - he did leave a lady hanging, and that is always unacceptable."
A+, very good answer!