Maybe your body is giving off extra coldness or something that is covered by your pjs in the winter time. So your naked body is freezing him to death.
Or something?
I have no clue. Most (and by most, I mean 99 percent) men would LOVE to snuggle up next to a naked body every night. Nudity is usually the only obstacle to sex, so if you're already naked it stands to reason that with a little creative positioning and prodding (um, no lancing) you could be convinced of some loving on a nightly basis.
Maybe your guy likes the challenge he thinks exists of getting you out of your pjs, as if he has some type of magical charm that he spews that miraculously lends itself to getting you naked. Really, I'm reaching here. Have you thought to ask him? I can't think of a single solitary reason that a grown man would eschew the nudity of the woman he loves. Especially since your nudity gives us carte blanche to be nude too!! And like I said already, nude + nude = bootay!
Which is better than U + Me = Us. I love my calculus.
I'd suggest that you just ask him whats up or start scooting closer until he falls out of bed because he's trying to run from you. If he falls out you have every right to wonder what in Sam Hill is going on and why he'd rather sleep on the floor than next to your naked body.
It was written.
Maybe the skin to skin contact feels clammy or sweaty to him, and he prefers to snuggle up against you when there's fabric between?
That could be. I really don't like skin to skin snuggling, unless I'm aroused. It just feels icky, somehow.
"Which is better than U + Me = Us. I love my calculus."
So, was that a legitimate 2gether reference, or am I totally showing my MTV decade??
On a more relevant note, my boyfriend is picky about temperatures to the most ridiculous degree (no pun intended). In the summer, he would prefer we hardly touch when going to bed... too hot, too sticky, too... picky?? I know but, if you turn it into a little love-making, he should come around. Good luck.
Well if you live in an area like I do sleeping next to anything that is warmblooded is a bad idea this time of year it is just too hot. And yes if my girlfriend is in my bed with me we will probably both be nude but not touching because waking up soaked in sweat you did nothing to earn is just not fun.
I know what you mean! I live in the desert, so on days when the temps are 100+ degrees and only cools down to 70 at night, you're not going to want anything warm even near you! Not unless your partner turns into a giant popsicle you can lick. Otherwise I'm as prickly as that barrel cactus in the front yard when it's hot.
my husband always wants to snuggle up to me in the nude no matter what season. But how long it lasts will differ depending on the season. In the summer he might last 10-15 minutes before he starts making us sweat. His body is always very warm to the touch no matter the temp. I usually am cold to the touch. But in the winter he could last most of the night before getting uncomfortable.
But even when I have unshaven legs, or missed a shower that night, he will still lay nude touching body to body for some amount of time.