Nope I'm just assuming. He did cheat on his ex girlfriend w me for a while and I cheated on my ex w him as well. We usually go out together every once in a while he goes out w his friends. This started bc in 8 months he's gone out without me a handful of times and he's like I want to be able to do my own thing sometimes and u not be the only girl there. All his friends are single so that's why I gey worried. We both have very flirty personalities and the only thing he ever does that legit annoys me is check girls out sometimes he does it whether they're young or old its like insticts..is that bad? Anyways due to his past it bothers me and bc he goes home or stays at the hotel w the guys or calls me at 3 am to get him wreacking of booze not perfume.. In 8 months only twice though so that's ok right?

I would dump him. For some reason a guy like that I would never be able to see a future with. if a guy checks another girl out in front of you and is a flirt it's tricky especially if out of the blue he doesnt want you there. If you see yourself with him like marriage wise then stay if not leave now. 9/10 theres someone more compatible for you

well he doesn't want me there out of the blue. He's just like sometimes i need my guy time or space to hang out with other people that aren't you. And if its all the guys and you'er the only girl its strange.

You said, "In 8 months only twice though so that's ok right?"

I guess it all depends on what type of relationship you want and how much you value yourself. This first time would have been enough for me. However, if I did choose to stay after the first time cheating, that he did it again would be it. I guess you need to ask yourself how many times does he have to cheat for it not to be ok? Most likely this behavior will continue since he knows he can cheat and you will stay. This guys sounds young, immature and not like boyfriend material.

Wouldn't you want to be with a man that values and respects you? One that you feel safe with and can trust. There are a lot of good guys out there.

If I were in your shoes, I would dump him and move on.

I don't know if this is cheating but I am really good friends with this guy and I have known him since I was in 2nd grade and now he is 10th grade and I'm in 9th. But anyway I have a boyfriend and he couldn't go to Homecoming and I was grinding with my good friend Kohn

I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years, and he's never done anything sketchy to lose my trust. He's really a great guy, and we're pretty serious, we talk about our future plans. I'm 21 and he's 23. But last month he went on vacation to Cuba with his guy friend. He asked me to come, but I live with my parents who are very traditional and strict, so unfortunately they didn't let me go on vacation with my boyfriend. Anyway, after he came back, i asked him if he danced with any girl there at the disco/club. He said he danced with the Cuban entertainer who works at the resort, but assured me that they danced salsa and other latin dances, not grinding like the clubs here. He also told me shes 38 years old and has a 16 year old son, so she's and older lady and he just wanted to learn salsa and enjoy some dancing. A week later i found some pictures of him and his friend grinding on the Cuban entertainer. They had her sandwiched in the middle, and my boyfriend was behind her and was defininately grinding on her. His hand was wrapped around her hip and their bodies were all over each other. I was upset and i felt betrayed. I confronted him and he told me it looks worse than what it is, and that it was just a joke. He said sorry and seemed very sad, he told me he hates himself for hurting me. I just have a hard time believing him, and i lost trust in him. What do you think of this situation? I told him im willing to forgive him, but im struggling with this. I dont want to be an idiot who forgives a cheater. Do you think he cheated? Please help.

Since he lied it is cheating but simply dancing/grinding isn't cheating what it leads to is but thats the part about a relationship you have to trust your boyfriend/girlfriend that they wont take the next step if he does grind and he tells you yeah you'll feel hurt but its not cheating because guys like guys night and if they dont get it they get really weird if grinding makes you feel mad upset whatever go have a girls night

Since he lied it is cheating but simply dancing/grinding isn't cheating what it leads to is but thats the part about a relationship you have to trust your boyfriend/girlfriend that they wont take the next step if he does grind and he tells you yeah you'll feel hurt but its not cheating because guys like guys night and if they dont get it they get really weird if grinding makes you feel mad upset whatever go have a girls night

Since he lied it is cheating but simply dancing/grinding isn't cheating what it leads to is but thats the part about a relationship you have to trust your boyfriend/girlfriend that they wont take the next step if he does grind and he tells you yeah you'll feel hurt but its not cheating because guys like guys night and if they dont get it they get really weird if grinding makes you feel mad upset whatever go have a girls night

My gf went on a vacation she's been going out to clubs every day,one day I get a text message from a foreign number saying hey how are you it's mike from the club from last night I was acting like I was my gf I told him I didn't remember alot about that night because I was really drunk so I asked if he could refresh my memory i asked if we danced he said yeah I asked was it grinding and he said yes that she was the one that insinuated the conversation and the one that took his phone and put her number in his phone witch ended up being my number she made a mistake like a retard I confronted her she said yeah but I gave him yours by mistake they didn't do nothing else he said but now I'm thinking what if she gave him her number instead of mine would she have had kissed him or have sex with him because she still had more than a week left on her vacation plus I asked if I told him I had a bf n he said yes you did more then once and that he's far

Grinding is so totally NOT cheating! Have you people been living under a rock? That’s just how our generation dances, people. When I’m at a club with my girlfriends, I’ll grind with a dozen guys in a night like that, it’s no biggie. If a guy gets hard when his junk is between my butt cheeks, sure that makes me feel sexy and it’s flattering. But it’s just dancing, not sex! At pool parties I’ll grind with my boyfriend’s buds or dance sandwich-style and he’s totally cool with it. When my boyfriend is dancing with some girl and she’s rubbing her ass all up in his crotch, does he pop a boner most of the time? Hell yeah, cuz he’s not freaking gay! Does it make me a little jealous? Yes, sometimes if she’s cute. But I get over it real quick. Because at the end of then night, I’m the one who ends up with his big D in me, not her. In fact I oughta thank the ho, cuz after a night of getting horny, he always gives me the best sex ever!

Okay well is grinding on another girl cheating or not !?

yo that bitch angelliqua sounds like a typical sorority slut lets see how long u last with guys nasty hoeeee