What a hilarious question. Don't be offended -- it's a compliment.
Okay, the sweat thing... I've never thought about it but I suppose it might be off-putting to some guys if a woman is profusely sweating while doing the dirty deed. I think it depends on what you mean by "a lot." Are we talking ordinary exertion sweat, like what you might have during a brisk round of pilates, or are we talking gallons of water pouring down your face and arms and back like the dam just burst?
Everybody sweats differently. Some perspire more than others. It's not like you can really help it, anyway, right?
Me, I don't think it's a turn-off at all. Quite the opposite, in fact. Sweaty sex is good sex. It means you're getting all down and dirty and working it like it ought to be worked, yo. If I look down (or up) and see my lover all wet and flushed and glistening, I'm thinking, "Oh hell yes, get it, girl," and that's going to make me work even harder, because, hey, it's a team effort. Then we'll both be sopping wet and neither of us will give a damn who's sweating more than the other because we'll be copulating like rabid monkeys and it will be fricken amazing.
So, hell no, sweating isn't a turn-off. It's a badge of honor, like those stickers that read, "I Voted Today." Sweat is a sticker that reads, "I Porked The Hell Out Of My Man Today." Wear it proudly.
Okay, the sweat thing... I've never thought about it but I suppose it might be off-putting to some guys if a woman is profusely sweating while doing the dirty deed. I think it depends on what you mean by "a lot." Are we talking ordinary exertion sweat, like what you might have during a brisk round of pilates, or are we talking gallons of water pouring down your face and arms and back like the dam just burst?
Everybody sweats differently. Some perspire more than others. It's not like you can really help it, anyway, right?
Me, I don't think it's a turn-off at all. Quite the opposite, in fact. Sweaty sex is good sex. It means you're getting all down and dirty and working it like it ought to be worked, yo. If I look down (or up) and see my lover all wet and flushed and glistening, I'm thinking, "Oh hell yes, get it, girl," and that's going to make me work even harder, because, hey, it's a team effort. Then we'll both be sopping wet and neither of us will give a damn who's sweating more than the other because we'll be copulating like rabid monkeys and it will be fricken amazing.
So, hell no, sweating isn't a turn-off. It's a badge of honor, like those stickers that read, "I Voted Today." Sweat is a sticker that reads, "I Porked The Hell Out Of My Man Today." Wear it proudly.
Oh my god Cary, I must feel like I know you too well to be reading this answer. I actually blushed when you were talking about having sex. I know, I know, slap me.
But to the question. Sweating is a good sign, sure. But I was with a guy when I was young who sweated buckets. It was disguuuusting. So, I mean, I think there's a limit.
It's ok, M, I've never actually had sex, so don't worry about picturing it.
Dripping on me sweat. No. Work out glisten sweat... hellz yes.
Sweat is awesome - B O is NOT AWESOME!!! Without ME its just AWESO
B.O. is a different thing entirely. I'm only talking about sweat.
Agreed, Melissa! Too much sweat is icky on a man OR a woman. But yeah, a little sweat can be quite sexy! It is the world's best exercise, after all -- good for body and mind.
No, the Ab Roller is the world's best exercise, but bumpin' uglies runs a close second.
"Oh hell yes, get it, girl."
I'm sorry, I just can't picture that coming out of your mouth (probably because you remind me a bit of my dad in looks and mannerisms... no offense).
Other than that, I totally agree. A decent amount of sweat makes it that much better. It really feels more animalistic and primal.
HA HA HA! Metalhead, I'm guessing your dad has probably had sex too (unless you are adopted or you are his stepson or something). I would bet that he more than likely enjoyed it too! You probably would rather not think about it, but It's true. Yes, people over 30 do have and do enjoy sex and ARE enthusiastic about it! :-D
Right on, D, right on. We're also better at it. At MetalHead's age I couldn't have found the clitoris with a miner's hat and a divining rod.
Get off my lawn!
ha ha ha! =)
Cary!!!! A divining rod. You slay me.
I think it's a good idea to remember that sweat releases pheromones. And we know pheromones are a primal signal that it's time to get it on. That's why women are so carnally attracted to the sweaty, shirtless carpenter type!
Go get your sweat on, lady!
"I Porked the Hell Out of My Man Today" -- oh Cary, you slay me.
In all seriousness, she should keep in mind that pheromones are released when we sweat. They're the same pheromones that turn a woman on when she sees her man (or any - attractive - man) sweating, shirtless, glistening in the sun. Those primal hormones are part of what makes sex awesome.
I say get your sweat on, girl!
Wise-Ass is right. If you're not sweatin you're not doing it right.
I don't sweat smelly sweat when I'm knockin boots. I've never known a guy to secreet smelly sweat either.
When I'm hot as in this room is way too hot that is some smelly sweat. Or when I get scared I sweat and it's an awful smelling sweat. I mean awful. What is that about?
Can I just say I HATE it when people refer to sex in general as "making love"?? It makes me cringe a bit, and I imagine a person saying this probably wears granny panties!! Making love is a specific mood of sex involving more romantic gestures, eye contact, and usually a slower pace. SO, if you're sweating profusely when you're just taking it slow then that's a bit strange.
i asked my bf about this question, and he said that i look totally hot when i sweat. I agree that sweating is a turn on not a turn off. You go Cary!
my bf says he loves when i sweat during sex. he says it makes me look totally hot. ROCK ON CARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously Cary? A sticker? I don't know what the f*** is going through your head,but it sure ain't pretty.
You don't want to know.
This was some funny sh*t
you are hilarious - though i do like this question.
And i really don't mean this in a mean way at all - just something i've been told by a doc but if you are subconsiouc about your sweat losing weight should decrease it - i've lost 20lbs so far & have noticed a significant difference....except during sex but that may be do to increased stamina ;) lol
Thanks. Congrats on your weight loss. It's not easy, I know.