Oh dear one, you let that jerk mess with your young life?

Anyway, I believe this thread goes somewhere along the same line with a little tweaking on the elements of the equation:

http://www.guyspeak.com/answers/im-sleeping-with-a-man-who-has-a-girlfriend-he-has-feelings-for-me-and-i-have-a-bit-of-a-crush-on-hi/

Sad you had to ask that…, you should already know the answer.

YES.

YES.

Get out before he knocks you up and abandons you. he's using you. you deserve better.

The older guy paying attention to you probably makes you feel special. It feels like a compliment but it really is NOT because he is already taken. Does he have a girlfriend that he goes out in public with? If yes, you would be the one he does not want anyone to know about. If he cared about you, he would break up with his girlfriend first...

This just reassured my thoughts that you have my favorite answers, MM.

7 years isn't that bad... though the older you get the larger an age span you can get away with because no one would care if I a 50 year old was with 57 year old... or a 60 year old with a 75 year old?

The "has a girl friend" part... sigh... when will women ever learn? You don't like being on the other side of that do you? No, it really sucks to be cheated on, hurts like hell... so why do it to someone else? whether you know the woman or not, it's all about principles, values... if you have even an ounce of self respect turn around and don't let him turn you into that kind of person. That you had to ask makes me wonder if you even have the potential to be a better woman than that...