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Is it too desperate if I mail him? I asked him out, he said yes, I said I couldn't on this and that day but am free otherwise. No response. It's been 3 days and I'm going on holiday soon. Can I mail him to ask him what's going on?

Of course you can. But don't.

You asked him out and told him when you are available. Your work is done. The ball is in his court now. If you contact him again, yes, you risk appearing pushy and/or desperate. That won't help the situation.

I usually say that life is short and you should go for what you want, but you've already done that. It's his move.

Don't contact him again. Just go enjoy your vacation.

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5 Comments

silkysly

I think if this guy likes you, likes you.., he will contact you. He probably isn’t the right guy for you. I’m with WA, Don't contact him again. Just go enjoy your vacation. His loss!!

Andy

I guess you're right. I just don't get why he didn't just not respond or say no the first time, instead of getting me all excited...

Cary McNeal

Because it's easier to say yes to your face and then quietly blow you off later.

Kudos to you, though, for asking him out. Don't let this keep you from doing it again. The next guy might take you up on it.

Andy

Well yeah, that's what I'd usually figure. Except I asked him out via Facebook, and he took a day to reply, so you know... why not leave me responseless then? (No clue if you'll answer this as it's from a while ago, but I'm still really hung up on him. I know the chemistry didn't just come from my side, he tried to kiss me once)

Evi

I don't get guys sometimes...i went out with a guy (lunch & dinner) same day. He told me i likes me and that he will definitely wants to see me again after his one week out of town business trip. I text him once to wish him a nice weekend while he was on his trip...he never replied back & i know he's back in town but didn't contact me. So i never text again.

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