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Is too much sex a bad thing? My husband and I have literally known each other our entire lives..began dating at 15 married at 24..now we're 35. We have amazing sex on an average of 16 times a week..sometimes we don't leave the bedroom all day! Is this healthy..or are we addicts!?

It could be a bit of both. And in the case of the addiction, at least you two are addicted to one another.

Is it healthy. I have no idea. I'm not even going to venture an educated, scientific guess. But I will say that the fact that you two still like doing the do as much as you do, to the point of staying in bed all day some days is a very healthy thing. It means that there's still a very strong mental and emotional attachment there between the two of you all,and in my book, that is way beyond healthy.

My belief is that couples with a healthy sex life tend to enjoy the rest of life that much more. Things tend to go south when a couple stops wanting to sleep with one another as somebody always notices and the other always denies. Then the other problems start to arise. People are pretty textbook when it comes to having issues.

So keep on keepin' on. There are legions of married couples out there who would LOVE to have your concern. They are happy to smang once a month.

You make me proud.

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As long as your sex is not interfering with your other responsibilities, I don't see a problem here.

chrissie1101

uh yeah. whats the complaint here? does he have a single brother?

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God Bless the both of you!!

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Good for you and your husband, don't let anyone tell you that your sex life is weird/abnormal. I pray I can have what you have one day.

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Are you really worried it's an addiction? Because otherwise this reads like a silly excuse just to boast about it.
If it is an addiction then there's the same signs that come with most addictions - are you sacrificing other perhaps more important aspects of your life to do it, when you're not doing it is all you can think about when you'll next be able to, if you felt it was unhealthy would you be able to cut back on it, things like that.

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Wasnt boasting..just most of my friends tell me its unusual and make jokes about us and no..it doesn't interfere with anything..and yes I do think about it till we do it again..and we made a point to try to wait x amount of time..but that usually leads to wanting to more..so it usually gets thrown out the window.

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Well, it did come across a little bit like bragging. If you weren't bragging though, it still makes me wonder how the heck your friends know about your sex life in the first place? Normally that stuff's kinda private. Anonymous posting online is one thing, but sitting around the table telling your friends in person? Eh, I couldn't do that but that's just me.

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In any case, you guys have a great thing going, don't let no one tell you different!!

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Just girl talk one night...didn't give them all the details..but most of them act as if sex with their husbands is a chore/bargaining chip..which to me is unusual..but anyway..ever since then they always have snide comments as if me wanting to have sex with my husband is bizarre.

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Wasnt boasting..just most of my friends tell me its unusual and make jokes about us and no..it doesn't interfere with anything..and yes I do think about it till we do it again..and we made a point to try to wait x amount of time..but that usually leads to wanting to more..so it usually gets thrown out the window.

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Ah right, well if it's having no negative effects you're got a good thing going on! Don't spoil it by worrying about problems that aren't there :)

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injoy it forget what people say when 2 people are in love there is no better way to show it keep it up wish we could all have so much love

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How old we're you when you started having sex with him?

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