I wouldn't recommend banging it out with randoms until you are good and ready. Sex has a way of amplifying emotional states. If you're happy and self-confidant, sex will make you more of that. If you're full of angst and miserable, likewise.
But making out? Go for it. You're suddenly single! Wild, public, drunken kissing is totally allowed. In fact, it's prescribed. It's possibly one of the only dependable cures for your lovelorn fever. Making out with sexy people is one of the few perks that comes with getting dumped, betrayed, or realizing the person you gave so much too, not only gave so little back, but wasn't worth the investment in the first place.
Be a lip slut. Sucking face is good, wholesome, all-American fun. So long as it's between two single, consenting adults, making out has never done nobody any harm ever. Do it because it feels fantastic. Because nothing beats that new mouth taste. Making out is like playing tennis with lightening bolts -- there's lots of heavy breathing, thrilling back and forth, and hairs dancing on end.
There are no hard and fast rules for getting over someone. It is an imperfect process: when it comes to heart break, some people are like the superhero Wolverine from the X-men movies, who has the power of super-healing (not to mention excellent hair, and fists full of cutlery.) They get their guts dynamited by love and bounce back a weekend later.
It takes some people longer to glue back together the pieces of a shattered heart.
I know people who need weeks of loud heavy metal, or slow country, or deathly silence to begin to crawl out of their post-breakup dry well. Tears are the norm for many. Perforating walls with fists is how a few choose to deal. In the past, I have ritualistically burned love letters, T-shirts, and other physical gifts that she gave me. It was as if I held a mini-Viking funeral for a dead relationship. And yet, other times, I have hoarded everything she ever gave me. Literally held things that still smelled of her in my arms, while rocking back and forth. Other times, I have drank too much beer, eaten too much dim sum, or just sworn off women (of course, that never lasts. But it feels good to pretend to be in control.)
But let me tell you, every time I have personally had to deal with a busted heart, hoovering some hot chicks face has always made me feel a little better. Why? It's fun. It reminds one that relationships are supposed to be fun. And it make you feel sexy. It's easy to forget one's sexiness when one is lamenting the passing of an era.
Swap spit. You'll feel a little better. I'm not saying go out and replace your ex. Just go out and have a little F-U-N.
I'm going through this right now. I miss him so much. Is it normal for guys to just ignore you and act like they don't care, even if they do? I just don't understand how he could care about me so one day and then completely change over a fight.
I totally know what you're going through. Mine said things like "I just know you're the one when I hold your hand." All of a sudden BOOM I get dumped. I'm all confused thinking ok how can this dude say stuff thats so emotional and then just up and leave?!
I dont get boys...I really dont.
unfortunately some men dont really like to show their emotions, therefore not showing anything at all, aka ignoring you..its horrible, but just wait and he'll come around in a way that doesnt hurt his "pride" *rolls eyes*
There's this younger guy that i've seen in the past, afew times actually. I haven't seen him around for like 4 years-he's married now and he recently got ahold of me thru my sister and since then like a month has past. he starts texting me thru the cell phone. I can see right thru his intention.. he tells me he missed me and that that he wants to "see me again" which i think for a quick roll in the sack. I played along with him to see if he'd tell me that he's married now. He did say that he wanted to come "hit this" which surprised the sh*! out of me. So i told him which is the truth.. that i'm looking to find someone to date and possibly be in a relationship. He got upset and told me that we're not on the same level. Which indecates that he expected me to stoop to his level????? what do you think???
Oh honey, you already know the answer to this. I don't need to be a guy or a relationship expert to tell you to cut this guy out of your life and never look back.
Yeah, the saying goes, "The best way to get over one guy is to get under another." Funny thing... I was reading a link in Oprah's e-newsletter a couple days ago that basically said physiologically, that's a good thing (but not in those exact words). I'll try to find the link, because it's based on actual, scientific testing and proof. Loved it!
I'm totally having a Viking funeral. and then everyone has to go out and party and celebrate my glorious passing.
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