Let me ask you a couple of questions in return.
Is the sex still good otherwise?
Do you still have the use of at least one hand?
Are you still playful in and out of bed?
And - most importantly - does he care if you can't? He says not. You are with him - not the other guys you know, who are, frankly, talking out of their backsides.
Look. If you can't, you can't. Simple. Oral is nice. It is usually fun to both give and to get. But it isn't that big a deal, really. Sex, in all its forms, is a way to be close to, have fun with and show love for someone. It is not something that should cause you stress.
I am sure you can come up with enough alternative games, should you wish to, that it is never really missed. If you can't, I am certain the readers can give you a few suggestions!
Am I the only one who is dying to know why she can't? What is this "something" that happened?
There are pretty much only three possible explanations. And a gentleman never asks
What are the three, pray tell?
Its none of our business.
I'm oh so curious myself, actually...
She probably just had a bad experience with them
Like I say, a gentleman doesn't ask. Or tell.