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I've just started dating again, after about a year. And the guy is nice, and cute... but we have next to nothing in common. I'm not sure if I'm waiting for chemistry to happen, or if I'm just lonely. Is there a right and wrong here?

Well the wrong thing would be to stick around dating somebody that you already know you have no real connection with. Trust me, you can wait around forever for a connection to show up. Maybe it will, but then again, maybe it won't.

What you know is the right now. And right now you don't seem to be in it to win it. And he'll figure that eventually and wonder why you stayed. Maybe you are lonely, but it can be just as lonely inside a relationship as it is being single.

So the right thing to do is really think about what you're doing and making a smart decision for you so that you can be happy.

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"You can be just as lonely inside a relationship as being single." Tell me about it! And sometimes even more lonely, a clear sign it's being forced and is not meant to be. Nonetheless, I just went through two years of relationship loneliness, like an idiot, simply because I wanted to be in one so badly. Don't make the same mistake. I suffered permanent damage.

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Hes nice and cute. Keep dating him. FOCUS on the now, have fun, get to know him, express your feelings, keep working on the connection. I dont believe in passion, I believe that if the fire burns slower, it will last longer. Chemistry doesnt last, what lasts is our values, respect, compassion, and love for one another!

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There a are a few tests: do pda's with this guy make you cringe, shudder, hope nobody is watching? Is it an effort to make plans and meet up with him? Do you feel uncomfortable with him in front of your friends? Are little things about him starting to annoy you? Do you find yourself checking out other guys and feeling resentful?

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Do the right thing and cut him loose. You might not feel it for him, but some other woman might think he is absolutely amazing. By staying with him, when you're really not that into him, you are depriving him the chance to be truly happy with someone else.

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