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I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?

Nope!

Are you a slut? Nope!

Does it matter how many people you've slept with, as long as you were safe and respectful? Nope!

If you enjoy sex, and everybody you've had sex with is consenting, there's no reason to be ashamed of yourself whatsoever. Go forth and enjoy yourself.

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goodkarmagirl

I agree that it's about being consentual....and he gets the bennie of the doubt, but I'm sure you've seen or heard of relationships where one person is being "kind" and thinks he/she is being respectful, but is actually leading each one on to think they are the only partner.

I think 5 is a low number in a year or a lifetime....but it's another thing if it's all in one weekend!
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Well, depends on who you ask. My wife's cousin, its an automatic dealbreaker for her if the man has slept with more than 3 women in his life. Especially if any of them were one night stands.

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Call me old fashion, but if a guy has ever had sex before... I wont date him. Saving it for the wedding night is a HUGE deal to me and a lot of people I know...

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No way, dude! In fact, it means you are hot with the women. Stop worrying and get that number higher!

Alie

What would you think if a female asked this question?

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I remember a very similar question being asked by a woman a while back, though it might have been different GS guy. In any case, the answer was the same as this one. Indeed, the general point of view from these guys is people should feel free to embrace their sexuality, regardless of gender.

I highly doubt RP would give a different answer to a woman.

Dan Seitz

Honestly? I thought the question came from a woman.

Alie

Ohh I see well thanks guys I was just curious because a friend and I were talking about how many sexual partners are appropriate.

silkysly

If 5 partners make you a whore, I guess I must be a card carrying member. Where’s my secret decoder ring?

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