Whoever told you that was not speaking the whole truth. Can you really, honestly, tell the difference between sex with love and sex with mild liking, especially if he is a considerate and thoughtful lover normally anyway?
As long as he hasn't got to the stage of actively detesting you, if you still offer, he'll still be accepting and trying to give you a good time too. I am not saying that is the case here, but it is a possibility.
I really think you have asked the wrong person the wrong question here, and got your priorities wrong.
You have asked me a variant on the timeless "Does he still love me?" instead of "This is the problem I am having with my husband, what can I do?"
Hint: the answer to that is nearly always talking it out and possibly going for counselling if it is a tricky problem.
You should be asking your husband if he still loves you. He is the only one that actually knows, after all.
Now - go and make sorting out the problems between you two your priority. They never magically go away, there is always effort involved from both sides. But once you make a start, you will feel more optimistic and the feeling of disconnection will go.
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