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Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him to relax, so we can have an intimate and great experience?

If he is truly a virgin then the first several times are probably going to be great for him but total duds for you. In other words, they will be lightning fast. What you need to do is tell him that you expect the first few to be very quick affairs and that after that they will get much better. Soon enough he'll be kicking ass in that department.

One odd thing here is that you say you are already married but haven't had sex with him yet. That is pretty unusual since everyone knows what happens on the wedding night (unless you sent this question on your wedding night). I would say make sure you inspect his little friend before you consummate the marriage as he may not be a virgin but instead may be carrying something he's afraid to show you, such as a nasty friend for life.

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A new puppy! Train him to do it the way you want it done.

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That doesn't answer her question at all MM!!! In order to get him to relax I would tell him straight off that there is no pressure on him to perform perfectly straight off the bat.....tell him that you want this to be a learning experience for both of you and that you have your married life ahead of you to practice as much as possible. Tell him what you like and ask him what he likes / what he would like to do......make sure the lines of communication are kept open. If he has waited to have sex until now it may mean that he is insecure about something (his body, size of his manhood, history of getting too excited too quickly) ask him about it (nicely) and reassure him that you are attracted to him and that you want to have a healthy sex life with him. Enjoy!

VKnoxville

Much better response

LifeAin't

I think Mystery Man did kinda say that. Just in a brief, male, Mystery Man way.

Barbiie

Stuck ? Lmao sounds Like Something My Nephew will Think .

AngelBabyGirl

or give a collection of porn with two stacks one "gay" the other "straight" see wich stack he grabs & then go from there.If he goes for the "gay" stack then you should.....well,run screaming into the night.but if he grabs the "straight" stack trust me after watchn a little of it you'll both be relaxed in no time.

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