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Meeting at a Halloween party, he gives me his card and asks me to give him a call. Does he really want me to call?

Maybe. You have to assume he hands out cards to a lot of people for both personal and professional reasons. Handing you a card is pretty impersonal. It says, I'm interested, but I'm not going to make more effort for you than I would for, say, that douche-y marketing guy from AT&T who cornered me at a work cocktail party.

On the other hand, considering it was Halloween, he was probably wasted. On the "alcoholiday" scale, Halloween is second only to New Year's. If he was sober enough to hand you a card and not, say, scrawl his number on a napkin before running off to play Rock Band 3 with some dude dressed as zombie Mario on keyboard, then he's at least somewhat interested. But a couple things to consider:

-- Did he get your number? If he did the whole flirt-y, "call me now so I'll have your number in my phone" thing, he'll probably call you.

-- Is there more on his business card than just a phone number? Email, website, Facebook, etc.? If his card has all of his information on it, that means he's comfortable with you having access to his life. But if the number is to his answering service, you've definitely been given the blow-off.

Ideally, he would have asked for your number as well. If not, it's still worth a shot. He's at least interested enough to give you his information. Though if he was wasted, there's a chance he won't remember who you are. (Particularly if he didn't store your number in his phone. That means he'll see a random number when you call and may let it go to voicemail. Hopefully he'll remember your voice--and your costume-- and call you back.)
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Same thing happen.. Booty, booty booty is only what he wants.. tell him to take a hike!

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I'm mostly with Nick on this one except one possibility:
He might have been a shy guy completely overwhelmed by your awesome and getting out his card and getting it to you was a huge thing to him, but even so, it's still worth a shot!

Any scenario we can come up with is really worth a shot! Worst case, you find out there is one guy in the world not worth pursuing.

And what's with this not answering numbers you don't recognize thing? I see that a lot. Seriously? Someone is calling you, unless you are busy, it's kinda rude not to pick up. What if it's your grandma making her one call from jail and she needs you to bail her out? Or your sibling is in the hospital and has less than an hour to live? What if a friend is using the cell phone they stole off the psycho killer that locked them in the trunk?

How would you feel finding that out the next day after they're DEAD!?

Phew, sorry, that's just a pet peeve of mine.

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