If you ask me, your boyfriend's nuts. Kissing's my second favorite activity, right before eating and after something I don't care to go into. Making out should be an end unto itself, and you should be dry-humping each other well into retirement. But despite my clearly romantic nature, even I have encountered lips I should have thought twice about.
There are any number of reasons your boyfriend might not suck face with appropriate gusto. You could be doing something off-putting, like jamming your tongue into his mouth like a jackhammer, sucking the air out of his lungs, or leaning your head back continuously (all of which I have experienced, and none of which I would recommend).
Or, you could have ass-breath. And he might not be bringing it up, because maybe he's a little more tactful than I am. Telling someone you don't enjoy kissing them can feel like a huge betrayal, when really you'd both be better off communicating and getting your routine perfected.
Try asking him if there's anything you can do to get him to kiss you more. Or if you're not the type of couple that, you know, talks about stuff, try popping some mints, pulling him into a kiss, and focusing on his body language to learn what he likes.
The important thing is that however you communicate, do it, then put what you learned into practice. I find some flashcards or charts can really help lend an air of romance to your scheduled weekly kisses.
I firmly believe that no one just "doesn't do kissing." If your guy is avoiding liplock, there's a reason.
I know a girl who just doesn't do hugs.
No...This is a big deal.. I agree it could be you have killer breath. If you haven't gone to a dentist in a while you could have a problem on your hands (a breath mint ain't gonna fix it)
If its not funky breath you could be a bad kisser... I know I don't like kissing a guy who has no clue what he's doing
And then... Finally if its not that, this guy just really isn't feeling you :( He could be gay(had a friend whose boyfriend came out after 5 years of dating. She always said he would be all awkward while they were intimate... Gee wonder why? ) , he could have just had a change of heart about you... any of a number of things but when a guy just shows no enthusiasm in a kiss, that is a major red flag.
I did have an ex who just didn't enjoy kissing. It was something he admitted to a few months in, and he knew that it was weird and he felt bad about it. We stayed together for over 4 years anway, and the end of the relationship had nothing to do with this particular issue.
All the men that have dated before and since then have thoroughly enjoyed lip-locking with me though, (including me current sweetie), so I'm a happy lady. :-)
I'm having a fling with a guy and things were hot and heavy for a few months then one day he suddenly told me no more kissing, it's too personal. He never did give me another reason. We've done other things but still no kissing. He kissed me for my birthday and told me it was my gift. Real winner I know!
Hold up- are you dating my ex? Sounds way too familiar...
"You could be doing something off-putting, like sucking the air out of his lungs." - Swaim
Holy shit man does that bring back memories.
I remember when I had my first girlfriend and I thought doing that was the funniest thing ever. Needless to say she wasn't my girlfriend for too long, and don't ask about the scar above my eye, okay?
my boyfriend told me i kiss him too much. i'm not seeing this lasting too long. i really like him and kissing. he's crazy about me but doesn't like kissing as much as i do. at least he's good at it though. i kissed a guy once and it was like he was trying to eat my face.
thats strange my boyfriend loves kissing but we havent kissed yet..... hes kinda rushing me like sunday me and him were sitting and we were planning to kiss but i just remembered that i woke up late and didnt have a chance to brush my teeth....
And i was really nervous i have no idea though we are planning to kiss this thursday.
but i feel rushed! i mean ....... like i want to but.... i have no idea i guess i just think im a bad kisser & if he says it to me im gonna feel really bad and ive never had my first kiss.
Winninq? (A). Hell No. :(
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months and when I kissed him the 1st time I knew there was something wierd about it so I decided to go in for another one and he kinda like closed his mouth.........and I said "Whats wrong?" And all he said was, I really do not enjoy kissing, nothing towards you, just dont like to. Wow, I never met anyone that does'nt like to kiss. Well he is 61 but I really do not think that should matter,But he is GREAT in bed, in fact the best I have ever had, so I am going to stick it out and see where this takes me, cause I really like him a lot!
So I'm seeing this guy but he told me from the beginning that he doesn't like to kiss. It's so hard for me because I love to kiss. So I find myself literally holding myself back when I feel like kissing him. I find it so weird that I've been with him for a couple months and I haven't received not one kiss, peck, kiss on the cheek, absolutely nothing. Like he doesn't use his lips for anything. Except sexually. But never any type of kissing. It's driving me completely insane. All I keep thinking is that he's probably not that into me. But if he wasn't into me then why be with me. I just find it so weird. And I don't know what to do, since he had forewarned me about it. I MISS kissing. And it take alot of effort to not feel hurt when my boyfriend won't even kiss me on the cheek. All I get are hugs but it's just not enough. I don't know what to do about it.
my boyfriend wants to kiss me....in the future but im readdy now. btw we have been going out for 5 months. how can i give him the sign that i wanna kiss!