You're right to question it too. Who moves stuff OUT of a house while their kids are sleeping? You can't leave. It isn't like they can move everything into the car outside and call it a day.
Perhaps its the cynic in me that thinks that sounds fishy. It's possible that its totally innocent. But he also would have told you that upfront as to not create the idea of deception. He got caught and came up with a story...an odd one at that. So yes, you are well within your rights to quesiton his honesty.
My only suggestion here is to ask him to just be straight up with you. And illustrate to him how the scenario would look from the other point of view. Help him understand why it looks suspicious. Here's your only problem. He didn't get caught doing anything and if anything he'll just smarten up now. At the end of the day, you have to decide if you trust and believe him or not. When dating anybody you have to put your trust in them. So the question is does this scenario make you trust him any less? And is it something you can get over?
Those answers will let you know.
That sort of behavior would definitely raise red flags for me. But I agree that there needs to be a conversation before jumping to any conclusions.
Help her move. Then gauge their reaction.
Good one!
I was thinking the same thing...
Sounds suspect to me. Who in the world agrees to help a recent divorcee move late at night without telling their girlfriend? Especially if it's a woman that the gf doesn't know...
I just can't see any good coming out of this. I could be wrong, but methinks there is foul play going on.