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My bf has always been a loyal guy. Recently he went on a business trip with some jerks I have never liked who took him to a strip club. He texted me how beautiful the girls were then stopped talking to me. The next morning he told me he didn't even know where he was till it was too late. Am I crazy for being upset?

Nope, I'd say you had every reason to be upset, if for no other reason than he texted you about how pretty the strippers were.

I wouldn't get "dump him" angry; if he's been loyal, and the guys in question are jerks, it actually is fairly likely he didn't know it was a strip club until it was too late. The problem is really your boyfriend has to be the one to talk to these guys and tell them to knock it off; if they're his coworkers, it's a bit out of your realm.

But, honestly, likely your being really angry at him will be motivation enough.

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I don't get why a strip club is such a big deal. I kinda wanna go to one with my boyfriend for my 21st. And I don't care if he looks or gets randy from looking. Just so long as I know I'm the only one he's banging. If you know he's loyal, then I would suggest letting it go. The pretty text was a bit much, but you really have no proof that one of his dick co-workers didn't get a hold of his phone and send that. I would just let it go and be chill.

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If they are really jerks, one of them may have taken his phone...

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If one of his dick co-workers sent the text without his knowledge, major dick move on their part. If he did, major dick move on his. I don't know if I'd want to keep a guy who would be that stupid and callous.

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