I'm a bit confused. So your boyfriend actively talks about all of the groupies he's banging on the road?
And you're okay with this? Both the fact that he's banging groupies on the road AND that he talks about it. The thing you are worried about is him telling everybody he has a girlfriend?
If all of that is right, then my guess is you are worried that the blogs will judge you for sticking with a man who is actively spending more time inside women than tampons. Which I can understand. And you're right, its hard to ignore blogs and tabloids when your name is all over them. Your boyfriend, famous as he is, has probably learned to develop a thick skin. You have never had to since he kept your lives private. I think that you are fair to feel how you do, but I think famous people like to stay famous and putting their business out there is part of the gig. I think you need to explain to him why you don't want that to be the case, but prepare yourself for it anyway.
And then like he said, you're going to have develop a thick skin and try not to pay attention to it. That's your best best.
I think the OP might be saying they are in a same sex relationship
at least the question make more sense to me that way anyway
We're monogamous, so he is no longer banging groupies. I've never watched these interviews, but he has told me, "I've had a lot of sex, with a lot of groupies. I have women in just about every city." Whereas, he's the 3rd guy that I've slept with, and we're a few years from 30.
I'm just afraid of the judgement that I'll get. I believe he's the one because I've never been happier.
And yes, famous people stay famous for more money. If you're relevant, then you are probably getting paid to do a club appearance. If you don't do stuff every once and a while, you'll end up broke and addicted to something.
No, this is not a same-sex relationship. I'm a girl, and he is a guy.
If you trust that he's being faithful to you right now and you are completely happy with your relationship, then the judgement from other people is just criticism from people that don't matter.
No matter who you are, or what career you are in, there are always going to be people that have judgments, criticism, and too much time on their hands. I tell this to my friends as well: people will always have something to say. But if you are happy, you don't need their approval anyway. And they just end up making themselves look stupid. And generally rather jealous as well.
I hope this works out for you! :)
Wait, is he keeping his private life private, or is he taking it public? And if he's taking it public, in which way? "This is my lovely girlfriend ----- who supports me in..." or John Mayer "sex with her is like sexual napalm" style? 'cause there's a difference.
You were okay with him sleeping with other women? Does that mean you were sleeping with other men too?