Wow, that sounds like the premise of a terrible movie. I suggest you sell your story to Hollywood right now, dump your
boyfriend, and make a fortune. Here's the pitch:
"3 Dudes. One wannabe Playboy Bunny. One house. From the guys who brought you American Pie. Luke Wilson in...Bro Pad. This summer, it's time to bro home."
Seriously, though, I wouldn't worry. It's definitely a weird situation, but if your boyfriend is trustworthy this shouldn't change anything. Plenty of guys live with female roommates and never cheat on their girlfriends. It all comes back to whether or not you trust him. Because, if he's going to cheat, he's probably more likely to do it with someone who doesn't live under the same roof and isn't likely to cross paths with his girlfriend on the way to the bathroom.
And if he was looking to cheat, who's to say she wants to sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend? You're just assuming she's some sex-crazed slut. Seems a little unfair, no? Even if he was single, he probably wouldn't be rockin' the sheets with her between dishwashing duties. Most women don't want to sleep with their roommates. It's the whole "don't s-- where you live" thing. It gets messy fast.
Is she actually trying to become a Playboy Bunny? Or does she just dress kind of skanky, and that's just your way of describing her? Perhaps you're judging your boyfriend's new roommate a little too soon. Who knows, you guys may end up being besties. Just because she wants to be a Playboy Bunny doesn't mean she's a slut who's going to engage in nightly threesomes with her three average dude roommates. That sort of thing only happens in terrible movies, usually starring the aforementioned Luke Wilson. (Seriously, that guy would star in your cousin's bar mitzvah video if you paid him enough.)
Definitely talk to him about it if you're worried. If he sees that you're worried, he'll hopefully calm your fears. You can't really tell him where to live until you guys decide to move in together, but you can express your concerns.
Also, remember that there are two other guys in the house. It's not like he's moving in with three lingerie models who have nightly pillow fights. (Clearly I have seen way too many bad movies.)
"3 Dudes. One wannabe Playboy Bunny. One house. From the guys who brought you American Pie. Luke Wilson in...Bro Pad. This summer, it's time to bro home."
Seriously, though, I wouldn't worry. It's definitely a weird situation, but if your boyfriend is trustworthy this shouldn't change anything. Plenty of guys live with female roommates and never cheat on their girlfriends. It all comes back to whether or not you trust him. Because, if he's going to cheat, he's probably more likely to do it with someone who doesn't live under the same roof and isn't likely to cross paths with his girlfriend on the way to the bathroom.
And if he was looking to cheat, who's to say she wants to sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend? You're just assuming she's some sex-crazed slut. Seems a little unfair, no? Even if he was single, he probably wouldn't be rockin' the sheets with her between dishwashing duties. Most women don't want to sleep with their roommates. It's the whole "don't s-- where you live" thing. It gets messy fast.
Is she actually trying to become a Playboy Bunny? Or does she just dress kind of skanky, and that's just your way of describing her? Perhaps you're judging your boyfriend's new roommate a little too soon. Who knows, you guys may end up being besties. Just because she wants to be a Playboy Bunny doesn't mean she's a slut who's going to engage in nightly threesomes with her three average dude roommates. That sort of thing only happens in terrible movies, usually starring the aforementioned Luke Wilson. (Seriously, that guy would star in your cousin's bar mitzvah video if you paid him enough.)
Definitely talk to him about it if you're worried. If he sees that you're worried, he'll hopefully calm your fears. You can't really tell him where to live until you guys decide to move in together, but you can express your concerns.
Also, remember that there are two other guys in the house. It's not like he's moving in with three lingerie models who have nightly pillow fights. (Clearly I have seen way too many bad movies.)
Don't shit where you eat = true. I had a hot roomie in my first NYC pad, but I kept my paws OFF until I moved out. Then we made sure to stay in touch. And to, um, touch. ;)
It depends on how stupid your boyfriend is on a scale of 1-10... I wouldn't be comfortable with it either (because I have a tendency to expect the worse).. But for the most part yeah... Don't jump to conclusions until he gives you a reason to...
It can be alarming when your guy wants to move in with another chick and not even discuss living with you at all. But I'd say talk to him about it and see if you can met this gal and see what she's really like. If he's willing to let you two mingle and talk without him being around that's a great sign. If however he gets defensive and just says 'she's an awesome girl and has a BF' that could be a red flag!
Maybe the "Playboy wanna-be" roommate is moving in with dudes because girls can and will be catty (Case in point the pleasant nickname you bestowed upon her). You put more than one female specimen in a small enclosed area long enough claws will come out. Guys are much more easy-going and won't give you the Stink eye for the sake of giving you the stink eye.
Give her a break and him for that matter... if there's no need to be suspicious (which if there is this relationship has lasted a lot longer than it should have) stop creating reasons.
Because it wasn't said Nick... Amazing movie premise. I can hear the voiceover in my head.
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