What a novel and sweet question. We Americans really like to keep our meat and potatoes separate. Titty clubs to the right, bouncing wang clubs to the left. I think it's cute and rather open of you both to seek a strip club that's got more than one type of flesh on the menu.
The reality is, as far as I can tell - it's very rare.
You will find clubs with naked women filled with men and some women.
You will find clubs with naked women filled with women.
You will find clubs with naked men filled with men.
You will find clubs with naked men filled with women.
When it comes to couples... You can find fetish parties for couples, maybe some underground swing events and the like, but in terms of clubs that feature women performing for men and men performing for women - not really.
The idea in some ways makes sense, but I think most clientele would prefer one or the other. Plus, this isn't ancient Athens. In our society today, straight guys can't tolerate being in a club with naked men. The implication of what that would mean would be too... worrisome.
My sense is you should do some investigating in your town or city. Get a sense of the scene for couples. Maybe it's a bit off the grid, but does exist to some capacity.
But if I may, you wrote "I would not feel comfortable going to a strip club with female dancers and he would not feel comfortable going to strip club with male dancers. Are there co-ed strip clubs for couples?"
Wouldn't this mean that even if you found a co-ed strip club you'd both feel uncomfortable? Is the idea to cancel this discomfort out? To double it? Or somehow, your betting that nutsacks and double Ds both giggling to the same Usher remix will make everything comfortable?
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Thanks for answering my question! I'm not totally uncomfortable with naked women (I'm also an art major, so I've seen my share of nude women for drawings), but what would make me uncomfortable would be that there would ONLY be naked women dancing and that the audience would be primarily men. And vice versa for male strip club. I think if both the dancers and the audience were mixed genders, we'd both feel more comfortable with that. (Chances are we'd just be giggling anyway!)
Mainly we just both want to try going to strip club but we would want to experience it together, as opposed to going with same sex friends.
Again, thanks so much for the response. I was doing a bit of googling on the subject earlier and nothing much turned up, but perhaps I'll have to do some more digging or maybe plan to go to Las Vegas or something. :)
Las Vegas, maybe a trip to New York, they exist, just not precisely common. Good luck ^_^
I have been to strip clubs several times with guy friends and my experience was not awkward or uncomfortable at all. The girls really liked having me there and my guy friend and I received tandem lap dances. Be aware though, that while guys are not allowed to do any touching, if you are getting a lapdance, the stripper will undress you. It's a lot of fun and boosts your confidence by making you realize that beautiful bodies come in all shapes, sizes, and colors!
Very good to hear! I have been talking about going to a strip club with my boyfriend for ages... but always chicken out because I am afraid I would be the only woman in the crowd (other than staff of course). I'm not uncomfortable with the naked women, just kind of weird about standing out like a sore thumb and wasnt sure how welcoming these clubs would be to couples.
Why not try a burlesque club? Very different atmosphere, and more of a mixed audience.
Why not try a burlesque club? Very different atmosphere, and more of a mixed audience.
Why not try a burlesque club? Very different atmosphere, and more of a mixed audience.
Burlesque would suit you for sure. What a hoot! All performance and fun.
As for regular strip clubs, most of the ones I've ever been to were pretty boring, sad and tawdry, the dancers barely more than children performing lackluster aerobics routines in front of guys more interested in the contents of their beer glasses. We used to go after drawing class for a beer and more drawing.
I did go on one "date" with a good friend once. We went to the local stroll and to a club there. Sat down, ordered a couple of drinks. Because it was next to the stroll and it was winter, the place was crowded with lots of women in to get warm and one of the hookers asked if she could sit with us. She told us all kinds of stuff about hooking that I at that time had no idea about and it's been so many years now that I unfortunately can't remember the stories, but they were certainly entertaining.
Then my friend said, okay, now for you, and we went to a gay strip club so I could watch guys. Big whoop.
My friend was just that, an art school buddy. But it was definitely one of the more memorable "dates" I've ever been on.
There's one in my area! I've been looking through their pictures and while it doesn't seem much like a 'strip' club, it does seem like a lot of fun! Thanks for the suggestion!