My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do ? It really bothers me that he does this. Does he just want to see the jealous side of me ?
Mystery Man answered this question on
November 13, 2011 1:50 AM
Personally, I think a good hard punch in the nose is a suitable response, though some may opt for the timeless classic of kicking him hard in the nuts. On second thoughts, go for the kick in the nuts - his head is so dense you would do serious injury to your fist.
Dump the pathetic little boy loser and find a real man.
if it is bugging you enough to the point that you are asking a stranger on the Internet about it, your instinct is already telling you that it is wrong. copy that what MM said. this guy doesn't have the self esteem god gave a slug. you teach people how to treat you so letting him get away with this is just teaching him what he needs to keep doing to blow up his ego a bit. so don't. next time he does it ask him why he wants to get dumped so badly. then do it.
My boyfriend does the same thing to me, he will see an attractive girl and tell me she is hot or pretty and he does wait for my reaction but i just ignore it or agree with him. I actually have told him recently not to tell me whenever he finds a woman attractive because I find it disrespectful. But he doesn't seem to get the point and he still does it to me. So now I just play his own game, whenever I see an attractive guy I will tell him. Im pretty sure he will get the hint and stop what he is doing. So my suggestion for you is to play his own game . :)
lemme get this straight. your boyfriend disrespects you, you tell him not to, he continues to do so, and you return the favour by disrespecting him in return. AND suggesting that other women follow suit in this game playing. my suggestion to you is that you take self esteem for $100, alex.
I think the boyfriend wants to see some jealousy as it makes him feel good. He wants the attention the boost to his ego. Laugh it off and play along. Have enough confidence in yourself to say something along the lines of, "I know I'm better looking" or "stuff it dickhead or I'll find someone who is looking at me!".