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My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?

Is this a trick question? No, he won't cheat on you, because you're gonna boot his sorry ass before he gets the chance. At least I hope you do.

Your boyfriend -- how can I put this delicately? -- he's a f**khole. Seriously. Why on earth would you put up with that behavior? A guy who talks openly about getting busy with other women has zero respect for you. A guy with no respect for you will do anything he takes a mind to do, whether it's cheating, lying, abusing you, whatever pleases him. Why? Because he couldn't care less what you think or how you might react.

That you've stayed with him in spite of this behavior has only empowered the guy, so it's just going to get worse. I'm not saying that his douchebaggery is your fault, but you haven't done yourself any favors by letting him get away with it. You could tell him how you feel and ask him to stop, but I think it's too late. I don't see him changing. I'm not sure he's even worth the effort.

If he won't respect you, respect yourself. Cut your losses and dump this ass clown like a black bean burrito.

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Candice

totally agreeee
i feel bad that a woman has to even ask about something like this
and i also feel bad that a man who has absolutely no respect and treats women like objects gets away with shit like this.
woman up, woman!! lol!

No

+1 for "woman up!"

And this question is very depressing. No one should have to put up with that, ever. She's a saint (albeit one with little self-respect) for staying with him.

Nataliesmommy

If you dont dump him, he will cheat.

You DO deserve better and right now, it sounds like anything is better than that pos you are with.

Daisy

I agree. Yes. End it. A relationship with this guy is going nowhere. He's nothing but pond scum.

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Honey, stop thinking you don't deserve anyone better and dump his ass. You don't have to put up with that crap.

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Hey! What's wrong with black bean burritos?

Cary McNeal

Not a thing. They make bathroom trips interesting.

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Most things.

Megan

I do that with my guy. But we're friends with benifits and he doesn't care. I do it mainly as a joke. This isn't joking, this is intentionly hurting you. Stop letting him.

Carrie Seim

Cary is so right -- respect yourself, even if it's scary. So much better to be alone than with someone like that.

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Just do what I'd do in a situation like that, flip it around.

How cool would he be if you walked around making those kind of comments about guys you saw?

He'd lose his shit, right?

Well there ya go...

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Well, let me say this,, i am currently in a struggle for my life. Two years ago my boyfriend began this type of behavior and it turned into abuse.. I pay all the bills and he lays around on the couch all day. I do all the cleaning, shopping,working, and take care of four kids.... He has threatened my life and lying to the cops about abuse to put me in jail if I try to kick him out... here i sit shaking another night.. get out

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my boyfriend does this to me all the time. i keep telling him it hurts and if he does it again im done. but he keeps doing it and he always say hes sorry and that he will try his best to stop. if he seems like the guy that will cheat then yes dump him! but if he doesnt then tell him it hurts you and if he truly cares about you he will stop or atleast try.

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