" I also expect that money will fall out of the tree as I walk along the street. I expect there to be elfs who will clean my house. I also expect a harem. Sadly, I receive none of the things that I expect. "

Let me hear the people say "Amen"!

I expect a man to pay for the date, the clothes that I wear on it, the ride that got me to it, and to rub my feet on the way home as the driver chauffers me to my mansion. And yet, that STILL doesn't happen...

I expect him to be gratful as all hell on the off chance that he'll be lucky to get it a couple times a MONTH. Ugh, I hate people like that.

agreed, but if the gf is willing to and is not thinking she is being slutty then she should go for it. but the boyfriend should really lower his expectations.

I expect this dude will be single pretty soon.

When he expects a blow j...I expect ice cream right after...preferably cookies and cream ice cream.

My boyfriend GETS several BJs per week (as part of foreplay) but he still acts surprised, excited and grateful as all get-out when I do it. If he ever in any way hints that he is entitled to it, I'll stop doing it. But he knows better :)

Tell him you'll go down on him every time he goes down on you.
Either he'll quit whining or you'll be one happy chick.

I give my bf bj's every day and always before we have sex, why? because he is a great guy, he loves having sex with me, he does everything I ask of him and I wanted to show that I appreciate him by doing something that he loves.

This is one of those things that I'm having trouble understanding. If a woman wants something sexually, say for example for her guy to go down on her every night, then they get society's approval and applause for her demand. She's sticking up for her rights. But if a guy should make it clear that he wants/expects the exact same thing, then he's out of line, a jerk, selfish, a pig, et cetera. This is a HUGE double standard.

Both sides need to get a little more realistic here. Most couples are not 100% sexually compatible. Which means sometimes we have to go without AND sometimes we have to do what we don't want to. And it's 50/50. You have to be willing to say yes (despite not being in the mood) as often as he has to be willing to accept no (despite he most definitely is).

If you can't be bothered to take care of his needs and blow him when he wants it, then don't be surprised at all if he takes it elsewhere. If you're going to take 100% control of his sex life, then you take 100% of the responsibility for keeping him fulfilled. Same goes for him. Otherwise he'll associate you with sexual frustration, see you as controlling and castrating and then either dump you or find a playmate on the side that will give him what you chose not to.

Before this gets taken the wrong way (and it will), I'm not defending cheaters here. But I'm not about to pretend that prudery is somehow morally superior either. Be mature. Meet in the middle.

ive had one in four years fuck you all

do it when you want to, not when you feel you have to have an average to gauge it by. And Derek Scott, sorry man, are you married by chance?

I would rather give him regular blow jobs and be bloody good at it, but I would die and go to heaven for him to go down on me on an equally regular basis.

I would rather give him regular blow jobs and be bloody good at it, but I would die and go to heaven for him to go down on me on an equally regular basis.
And, if I had any control to taste as nice as possible, especially if there was risk that he may taste revolting. I prefer to wish to swallow happily where possible.

He has no right to "expect" it. That means he is taking you for granted. He does not respect or appreciate you. Tell him you'll go down on him when YOU feel like it and absolutely no other time. If he doesn't get that, then he shouldn't "expect" to have a girlfriend anymore.

Man I must be doing something right!! my gf loves giving me blowjobs LIKE EVERY DAY twice a day and she swallows too! Ive never been with a girl in my life that loves it as much as her its soo weird she has stopped me in the middle of sex to pull me out and finish me off. Not only that but she loves it when I have sex with her mouth in every position possible. I get it every day about twice a day.. Is this even normal??

Yeah but nitrous man how long have you and your gf been together? Me and my fiance use to do it everyday at the beginning of our relationship. And I still give him bj's every now and then and he eats me out. But the only reason I usually don't is because after I get off of work I'm tired and just want to rest. This is the same reason for half the people who aren't getting any or there relationship is not sexually involved.

Sex isn't everything in a relationship. I love my fiance and I love giving him bj's just to keep him happy and i love hearing him moan. But he's heart is more important to me then pleasuring him.

There has to be a point at which everyone accepts that men have a more constant and ongoing sex drive than women. That doesn't mean women don't have it, just that men have it constantly. Men CANNOT choose not to look at a good-looking woman walking down the street. Men CANNOT be happy in a relationship where sex is lacking.

You should talk to your man. Is he unhappy with the overall frequency of sex in the relationship. It's possible he thinks BJs are easier alternatives for you, less tiring and less involved. (I'm not saying that's the truth, but how many of you have given or received a blowjob while in the early stages of a relationship as a consolation prize for sex.--It makes them seem less of a chore.)

Above all, everyone needs to stop thinking it's all one way or the other. Studies show almost all marriages ending in divorce do so over sex or over money. These conflicts are constant.

Ultimately, what's the harm in just giving in? If he gets a blowjob every day from you, you'll be able to expect more intimacy from him in other ways. If he's sexually frustrated, he won't be able to hug you without 1) Trying to turn the hug into sex or 2) Resenting the contact.

More than anything, why the hell are you talking about this on a blog instead of to him?

First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his cock as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His cock in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his porn star, not a nun.

When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

Now you start pumping his cock faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his cock out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his cock a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com

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If you want to stay in the relationship then do what he expects. I expect a BJ every day and I get it. The reason I get it is I would never stay in a relationship with a woman that didn't give me what I want sexualy. It's a standard I set very early in a relationship and therefore it becomes habit and normal. I am not saying that you should demand it I am just saying if that is what you expect then you should be with a woman that is happy to oblige and don't waste your time with one that will not. As for the claim that some women refuse point blank to do it I have to say I've never met one and if I did I would never have anything to do with her. Never settle for second best.

"If you want to stay in the relationship then do what he expects. "
Sinclair do you also take this attitude to what women expect?

Do you do whatever your partner expects of you to stay in the relationship?
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"don't waste your time with one that will not. As for the claim that some women refuse point blank to do it I have to say I've never met one and if I did I would never have anything to do with her. Never settle for second best."

Oh wait you probably don't since you would never have anything to do with women who don't do your bj expectation as you don't waste your time with one that will not.

She should do like you and not have anything to do with him. So why are you telling her to settle for second best when you don't?

If you would never stay in a relationship where a woman doesn't give you what you want sexually why are you advising her to stay in a relationship where a man doesn't give her what she wants sexually?

Or are relationships just about pleasing men and giving what men what sexually?

Or are relationships just about men getting to choose not to waste time with women that don't give them what they want and never settling for second best while women if they want to stay in the relationship have to do what they don't what to do because he expects it?

Seems like pleasing your partner is really just code for pleasing men. Swallow/give bjs to please your partner is thrown at women yet for some odd reason most men don't think to please their partner lack of desire of swallowing/bjs by not asking that she swallows or gives them head. I thought most men had the mindset of your orgasm = your responsibility anyway.

personaly i do not think that any guy should EXPECTS head the majority of men who do get it dont get it 3 or 4 times a week anyways and if they do well cudios to them. And if your with someone who expects any sort of sexual intercourse then you should leave them because there obviously only in the relationship for the sex personally my gf gives me head but i dont ask for it. It goes both ways thou were both satisified with what each other is doing because we know what the other is comfortable doing if your boyfriend cant go at least a week with out head then cut em off start ridein more and if that dont work then find yer self a man that loves you and not your head. relationships are in no way about sex and sex should in no way be expected.

i think giving head isn't tht great of an experience for girls we dnt get much out of it....and besides if you go down on him and he doesnt go down on u as often say goodbye to that piece of shit! and seriously expecting alot of blowjobs....r u kidding me? my bf will be lucky to get one a month like i said i wnt do it much if i dnt get something out of it.....btw i dnt get y girls would want to not tht i want to b rude or anything but seriously..wats so great about it if we get nothing really to be honest!???besides pleasing ur partner but im just saying wat if he doesnt go down on you?

Wife doesn't like to do it or have it done to her. It is a bother to even ask her. If it ever is done, it has to be completely dark and she always complains and tells me to hurry up.

Needless to say, I have been getting it on the side for awhile now. She doesn't want to take care of me, I will find somebody else to do it. Women, do you understand that? We will find somebody else to do it. By the way, I like giving just as much, but she doesn't let me. We are not compatible in the bedroom. In fact, she is pretty boring anymore. Soon I don't think I will even bother to try anymore with her at all.

I have basically just resigned to the fact I'll find other ways to get it. I think she is not normal.

I dont see the problem. If he is demanding it, then by all means tell him to shove it. But I mean if he;s doing what you want, why not do what he wants? Is that not what sex is all about? Pleasing one another?

My girlfriend gives me blowjobs enough to keep me pleased, and I go down on her and do other stuff to keep her pleased. My girlfriend is lacking in sensitivity down there and it can be a struggle to get her to orgasm, but I know how and I put in the effort, because when she does she always has an amazing one. What she loves most is being fingered and I'm telling you it can become a struggle when she needs it hard and fast, right on her g-spot for like 15 minutes. My friggen arm will be going numb by the end, but I do it anyway cuz thats what pleases her, and she always makes a mess, lays back, shaking with a huge smile just breathing like she ran a mile. So is it so bad that I want the effort put in for me?

I think all these women that are so against it are just confused. Like these comments about "he'll get it once a month if he's lucky" are just ridiculous. If that's your attitude go find a partner that doesn't care for it. Its not like sex is about just pleasing yourself and never having to do something here or there that doesn't give you any gratification. One person mentioned that she doesn't understand why women would do it because they get nothing out of it, are you kidding me? Do you think when my arm is going numb I'm laying there thinking "well I might as well not do this cuz its no fun for me". Thats selfish as hell. The pleasure I get out of it is seeing her smile and lay there in satisfaction. And yeah, when the time comes I'd like for her to get going on me even if shes not gonna benefit directly from it.

If you're unwilling to do these things then expect to have nothing but sexually disfunctional relationships. Sex is important and nobody is gonna stick around if they're not being pleased. Therefore you ask for what you want, and you give what your partner needs as well, its that simple. I mean certainly exceptions apply. For example you can't expect a girl to let you perform nal sex on her if she doesn't like it, thats painful and unpleasent and you don't have any right to put your partner in that position if they're uncomfortable with it. But oral sex? Give me a break, at worst its just something you don't enjoy but deal with it. You think every guy likes getting face deep in a girl whos all wet? Some guys love it no matter what, me personally, I'm kind of impartial. I don't look forward to it but it doesn't bother me to do it so I do it on request. And my girlfriend has the same attitude towards blowjobs. She doesn't look forward to giving one, but she doesn't care to if I am in the mood. She knows its a give and take.

This is how sex works people. Deal with it. If you don't like doing something, and are so opposed to it that you think your partner should "consider themselves lucky" to have it done, make it clear early in the relationship so they can decide if they wanna continue. Or better yet just dont continue with it yourself, if they want something you're unwilling to provide go find someone who wants nothing more than you're willing to give.

Everybody is allowed to have epxectations and desires. And while it is of course something that has to be mutual [in that you both have to be willing to give to the other] you can't get pissed at someone for wanting something. Relationships are about finding someone you're compatable with in as many ways as possible, so if you don't match up sexually move on, and don;t go hating on someone if they choose to move on because you don't please them. I mean if all you ladies had boyfriends who pleased you sexually but were otherwise useless jerks you'd probably kick them to the curb, so why should it be any different if someone is great in every respect but for sex?

If you want nothing more than some vanilla sex where you lay on your back and get it missionary then find someone who wants to do that and don't complain about the guy who wants to do more just because its not something you want. Nobodies holding a gun to your head, you're free to pursue whatever you want, so do it.

Hell, I've tied my girlfriend up and pounded her hard to the point i worried I was hurting her because thats what she wanted, and all but for worrying if I was doing it too hard [which as it turns out I wasn't, it was just what she wanted] it wasn't anything that made me feel violated or put me in pain, so why wouldn't I do it? And that's how she likes it, she likes being held down hard and fucked hard and fast. She has told me more than once to be more rough with her and just "take her" so thats what I do, even tho I'd just like more to lay back and have her ride me. But you know what? Sometimes we do just that, and I lay back and get what I want, even tho shes up there thiking she'd rather have me holding her down on the bed and slamming her like crazy. Cuz we give eachother what we want, and everybody goes to bed happy.

So thats the end of my long ass rant. Simply put, if you don't wanna give then get out and go somewhere else and don't complain about it. There are billions of people in the world I'm sure you can find someone that suites your style. But don't expect anyone to just give up something they enjoy because you're too stuck on the fact that you shouldn't have to do anyting that doesn't please you. And don't complain when you go to bed unsatisfied because you're not getting what you want either, because man or woman, someone who's frustrated with not getting pleased isn't gonna be to up for pleasing the other person.

Done!

I'm still giving a standing ovation to SmarterThanYou! lol WELL SAID! I cannot stand when women say stupid things like, "well if he's going to get a bj from me he better be going down on me after" or brag about how little they'll do it. Being in an exclusive relationship requires you to be the one who meets all their needs. Let's face it, I've yet to meet a man who doesn't want a blow job. You do it because you want to please him, and it's not rocket science to find a happy medium about how often it's done. You want to make your partner happy, and trust me... this will make him happy lol. I used to dread giving a blow job because I wasn't very confident in my skills, but communication with my bf changed all that. Why do people make topics like this out to be so complex. It's really not that difficult.
Learn what he likes, compromise if need be, actually attempt to enjoy doing this for him, experiment, HAVE FUN, and above all... do it for the sake of pleasing your partner, not to gain some laps at your Y.

Write a comment..No one reply is wrong here. All of the replies are individually true. We are unique and precious creatures. Even to the point of opinions and expectations. Myself, I have lust for sexual variety. I am not to let it control me by being a taker, or vice versa a people pleaser. Sex is sex. Intimacy is intimacy. Love is love, etc. Selfish is selfish. Greed is greed. Co-dependency is co-dependency, etc. Define what is and what level it is you are willing to give or take. That's what I believe. It's All Good !!

Sex/blowjobs is 10% of a relationship, but when you're not getting it, it becomes 90%. Anger, frustration, resentment and low self confidence is what comes with a not so willing to please partner. I should know because I'm married to one! Take care of your partners sexual needs or you will lose them!

Sex/blowjobs is 10% of a relationship, but when you're not getting it, it becomes 90%. Anger, frustration, resentment and low self confidence is what comes with a not so willing to please partner. I should know because I'm married to one! Take care of your partners sexual needs or you will lose them!

If a girl/woman really cares about her man then she should NOT expect him to go without receiving a fair share of blowjobs. Also, he should return the favor on a regular basis. I dated a beautiful lady for close to ten years and she knew how to make me happy. At 56 years old, she loved all forms of sex and there was never any problems in the sex department. Those who do not engage in oral sex are risking losing their partner.

Well, good to see I'm not alone anyway. When we were dating, I didn't get them often, or to completion (should have been a sign I guess) but I did at least get them. I remember asking "if it was true what they say" that once married, they stop. She laughed and said no, yet here we are.

She's a great wife and wonderful mother of two kids. Other than this aspect, marriage is great - but my concern is that as far as I know, I only have one life and I have about 40 years left. That means according to her, I won't get something I love, ever again, for the rest of my life. Just makes me sad, and often feeling like I'm selfish. (although wow! That comment above about having a hard time even hugging my wife without feeling like it "should lead to sex" sure sounds familiar.)

I don't want to run for some "side action" either, but the idea that it isn't her favorite thing so "too bad" leaves me wondering. And for the record, yes, she loves when I go down on her and I do it as often as possible, daily if she'd let me, but her sex drive just isn't there. I really hope this isn't a massive long term problem, but I sure as hell can't imagine it'll get "better" as we age, together I hope.... I love her, but am very very frustrated.

What a lovely day for a 1439993! SCK was here

Basically, there is a massive percentage of women that feel like they cannot orgasm from intercourse. There are many books and sources of information that can help women realize that they are capable of, and how to climax, however it can feel frustrating for women. Imagine the frustration of knowing how pleasurable sex is, but you just can't reach that point from it, ever. This (i can only assume) is the main reason women seem like they are dependant on oral sex.

You may notice that if you are with a woman who can orgasm from sex, she isn't bothered by oral being once a week etc; this is not the case for women who cannot. My last girlfriend would orgasm several times from sex without too much effort; my current girlfriend has reached orgasm only once from sex, at 'maximum effort' for at least 30 minutes solid. Needless to say, my current gf expects me to go down on her at least twice a week, or she becomes very emotional, angry and resentfull until i do. (I love her, she is the most wonderfull woman I have ever encountered, and for all she does for me, I'm happy to).

Guys love blowjobs, it's one of the most sensual and attractive things a woman could ever do, in a man's eyes. "Going down" on your man is the ultimate sign that you are willing to put effort into making him feel loved and that you genuinely care. For guys like me, who get distracted easily or fantasize regularly, having the thoughts of how sexually adveturuous you are in their mind, can have them so overwhelmingly in-love with you, they will rarely fantasize about other women, or watch porn.

From my experience, women, like men depend on sexual release to balance out their emotions and feel relaxed, however they require much more effort if they cannot climax from intercourse.

SUMMARY: Think long and hard; if you feel like you don't have the capacity to give your partner what they need, do yourself and them a favor and leave. Both women and men are creatures of desire, society may try to pull wool over your eyes and say that one may deserve or be entitled to more than the other, however it's down to how well you communicate your needs with eachother, and how strong a connection you have that will determine whether they're "worth it".

PS: Communication is the centre of any relationship; what you have to say may not seem appropriate, however what do you have to judge it against if you have kept everything else to yourself.

My personal ratio is 1 time each, and take your time to enjoy it.
Regards-a guy who has dwelled on this for a many years.

Basically, there is a massive percentage of women that feel like they cannot orgasm from intercourse. There are many books and sources of information that can help women realize that they are capable of, and how to climax, however it can feel frustrating for women. Imagine the frustration of knowing how pleasurable sex is, but you just can't reach that point from it, ever. This (i can only assume) is the main reason women seem like they are dependant on oral sex.

You may notice that if you are with a woman who can orgasm from sex, she isn't bothered by oral being once a week etc; this is not the case for women who cannot. My last girlfriend would orgasm several times from sex without too much effort; my current girlfriend has reached orgasm only once from sex, at 'maximum effort' for at least 30 minutes solid. Needless to say, my current gf expects me to go down on her at least twice a week, or she becomes very emotional, angry and resentfull until i do. (I love her, she is the most wonderfull woman I have ever encountered, and for all she does for me, I'm happy to).

Guys love blowjobs, it's one of the most sensual and attractive things a woman could ever do, in a man's eyes. "Going down" on your man is the ultimate sign that you are willing to put effort into making him feel loved and that you genuinely care. For guys like me, who get distracted easily or fantasize regularly, having the thoughts of how sexually adveturuous you are in their mind, can have them so overwhelmingly in-love with you, they will rarely fantasize about other women, or watch porn.

From my experience, women, like men depend on sexual release to balance out their emotions and feel relaxed, however they require much more effort if they cannot climax from intercourse.

SUMMARY: Think long and hard; if you feel like you don't have the capacity to give your partner what they need, do yourself and them a favor and leave. Both women and men are creatures of desire, society may try to pull wool over your eyes and say that one may deserve or be entitled to more than the other, however it's down to how well you communicate your needs with eachother, and how strong a connection you have that will determine whether they're "worth it".

PS: Communication is the centre of any relationship; what you have to say may not seem appropriate, however what do you have to judge it against if you have kept everything else to yourself.

My personal ratio is 1 time each, and take your time to enjoy it.
Regards-a guy who has dwelled on this for a many years.

Women, if you don´t take care of the sexual needs of your man, he will find another man who will suck him off and swallow.

I have the same issue. I think that almost everyday is reasonable for me personally but he wants it EVERY day. And makes me feel bad if I'm not in the mood. I will have sex whenever he wants I'm just not always up for 30 minutes of head bobbing. And him asking for it all the time makes it feel more like work and less like fun. So frustrated. And for the record the precipitation is much less frequent on his side.

I'm actually considering leaving my husband over this problem. We've been married for 17 years and he's completely obsessed with bj's. He thinks I should give him one 3 to 4 times a week. Yet he only goes down on me about once a year! To top it off he dosen't even instigate anything sexual. He thinks I should always be the one to do it! Personally, I'm tired of just being looked at as a mouth that's good enough for a dick. And no I'm not or nasty I'm just taken completely for granted

My bud Jason, knows what it is expected of him. Everyday when I get home .. i kick back in my chair and he kneels down and does his thing. He knows if he doesn't do it or doesn't do a good job, its punishment time. What I do or did so he knows what happens if the conditions aren't met, I call a few of my buds up and Jason goes from cock to cock, like a hot little faggot. All of the dudes arent gay so they are arrogant commanding men. I've heard Jason whimper when he gets to a guy he knows is gonna lay it on em. Which means he is going to be nasty. This one dude Tim brings a younger uncle and keep in mind Jason is only 17 and the other dude (uncle) maybe be like 29, but his is a prick. Well what can I do,? The kid can't get away with it; after all , if he is mine he has to earn not being punished. I am a dick sometimes and if he does too good a job.. well that's a whole nother stort

I have same problem .. My boyfriend get blow jobs every night nearly but thn when it comes down to please me hes to tired .. Why .. Even in sex he cnt be bothered .. Could he be loosen intrest or just been a total dick head .. We have been together for 3 years noe and its only been goin on like this for about 10 months but its stressin me out i dnt get one bloody orgasim now !!!

My husband and I go down on each other regularly and we both love it. However, I do not usually do it to him to completion, because I like it as foreplay to intercourse. I have always had a somewhat stronger sex drive than him, so it is frustrating when I give him a full BJ and then that is it for a few days or more. When he goes down on me, I am always up for more, so we can follow through with intercourse. I am a little confused about comments made by some that they give their bf's blow jobs before intercourse. My def of a BJ is all the way. Are your men able to perform again so quickly? For you men, if your gf/wife goes down on you often and for a long time, do you feel resentful if she stops before orgasm to let you come inside her? After several years of marriage, this has suddenly become an issue....

"I expect him to be gratful as all hell on the off chance that he'll be lucky to get it a couple times a MONTH. Ugh, I hate people like that." If you are a woman and neglect your duties to your man he will leave your ass. If you start looking for sympathy afterwords you can find it between shit and syphilis. The bottom line is a man has needs.

I get blowjobs from my girlfriend several times a day and it's driving me crazy because we love sex both.
And boy o boy that she loves when i dive. but sex is so awesome.
No restrictions and that is the good part of everything.
No restrictions means everything is available. Hope that she never get tired of it. It would be a shame

There's a difference between expecting and wanting. I mean every guy would love a bj every freaking second of the day but he doesn't expect it. I'd say just reciprocate and expect him too reciprocate too. Also the whole ill only blow u if u eat me out first or vice versa doesn't work. If they don't return the favor the same night, they will the next night or whenever. It all evens out if you have a good relationship. Me personally? My gf loves to blow me, we don't see eachother a whole lot (1-2 times a week) bt when we see eachother she'll blow me 3-6 times depending on how long we're together, I reciprocate too, and well idk im kinda lucky cuz she likes getting her boobs sucked almost as much as being eaten out depending on the situation so ya :D bt anyways just idk reciprocate and its all good!

99 out of 100 times I have to start sex with a bj. I enjoy doing it and I know im awesome at it but to be honest..its getting old real quick! I can get wet in seconds by him just kissing me passionately but I cant tell you when the last time that even was. Does this mean my husband is not turned on by me?I have been searching the internet for an explanation to his behavior. And what can I do to fix this?

99 out of 100 times I have to start sex with a bj. I enjoy doing it and I know im awesome at it but to be honest..its getting old real quick! I can get wet in seconds by him just kissing me passionately but I cant tell you when the last time that even was. Does this mean my husband is not turned on by me?I have been searching the internet for an explanation to his behavior. And what can I do to fix this?

I have a question for the guys. I've only recently became sexually active. I lost my virginity at 19, and have strong womenly values and after I lost it, didn't have sex again until being with my current bf. We've been together for almost a year. I'm not a sexual expert. And seem to be slow to being a sexual deviant.

I love to tease and play sad fondle my man. And sex is GREAT.

But I'm confused about blow jobs. I love to start it during fore play and then that leads to sex.

Is this ok with most bj loving men?

I just have a very hard time keeping saliva in my mouth to last more than 10 minutes. And I get SO SO HORNY when I give bjs.

So for bj lovers. Am I doing good? I've asked my bf but I need more input from you bj loving men.

Is it ok to give a bj during fore play and then lead into sex. Does this please you? Does this satisfy you?

What about if your jacking off and your gfs head/mouth/lips/tongue is all over the head.

60 a week thats wat i get

I Have Always Loved Giving Head to the Person I'm in a REAL RELATIONSHIP WITH. But with this new relationship it's different. For some reason it's HEAD HEAD HEAD... He can come multiple times so that's good but I Have always got off doing it because I enjoyed it. When it feels like a job or something I'm just supposed to do when ever he wants it leaves a FOUL TASTE in my Mouth. I want to Love SWALLOWING COCK AGAIN. I miss the feeling of accomplishment I would get when I knew what I was doing meant something. And when we do have sex it's Awesome so I'm confused. Either he is just Lazy, Not wanting intimacy or He needs to go find a Blow Job Betty because this On Call Head Doctor is going to RETIRE. :{

Hi, i am a girl 16 and catholic.my boyfriend is a really hot guy and i really love him alot.I was never baptized as a baby because i was a premmie and things arose so it was put off untill last easter sunday.i was baptized at easter vigil and along with the other girls wore the traditional white poofy,mid thigh length baptism dress with a bonnet,lace socks and white mary jane shoes.under my dress i had the traditional white cloth baptismal diaper with adult plastic pants[aka rubberpants] over it with the traditional white under shirt.my boy friend came to my party and saw me in the outfit and got very turned on.after my party was over,we went to his house and his parents were out of town.we started necking and he ran his hand up under the back of my poofy dress and felt the diaper and rubberpants on me and asked my i was wearing them.i told him they are what the girls wear under their baptism dresses.he very aroused and i was also as he was really kissing me.he unzipped my dress and pulled it off of me,then took my under shirt off of me.i just had on my bonnet,diaper and rubberpants and my lace socks.he undid his pants and pulled them down and put my hand on his penis and told me to play with him.after a few minutes,he pushed me down to my knees and put his penis in my mouth and told me to suck him off.i sucked for a few minutes,then he came in my mouth and told me to swallow it all,so i did.ever since then,when we go out he tells me to wear the diaper and rubberpants and we usually wind up parking and he tells me to give him a blowjob.i feel i am being taken advantage of by him,but he is a really nice guy and i want to keep him satisified,but i dont like wearing the diaper and rubberpants while i am giving him a blowjob.what can i do?

Julie,
I have the same issue with my boyfriend. Tell me if you ever find out a solution, because i've also tried searching on the internet for answers and can't find any explanation. My boyfriend rarely passionately kisses me, and it makes me feel like he's bored with me and just wants to get off right away. I'm not sure what to do next without just talking to him and making him feel angry or upset.