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My boyfriend had pictures of other girls in their bras and panties, as well as their naked privates. I had accidentally deleted them all when he told me to delete an old picture of him and he flipped out on me. He says he didn't look and them but he doesn't look me in the eye when he says this. I don't know what to do.

Okay, my guess is that you all are a bit young. So I'm answering this question to just be the helpful uncle. Ole Uncle P.

Anyway, I believe that he doesn't look at them as much as I believe that you managed to delete a BUNCH of pictures instead of the one he asked you to delete. Glad we got that out of the way.

Now, obviously your boyfriend is mad because you got rid of his stash. And obviously you got rid of his stash because you (rightly) felt some kind of way about him having these pics of other women when he's dating you. I think that you need to think about whether or not he's only looking at pictures of other women or if he'd be the type to take the next step and cheat on you. A lot of men have pr0n stashes and what not. And believe me, they look at them. But if your girlfriend were to find them and ask you to get rid of it, out of respect for her, he should have no problem doing it. The fact that he got upset indicates to me that he's going to get more pictures. So you need to decided if this is the man you can trust or not.

Once you figure that out, then you can make a decision.

And while I can understand a man (or woman for that matter) being upset that somebody else erased their personal property, you do have to put yourself in your Significant Other's position. Jealousy is real. And they should be enough for you. Key word here...should.

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Jlove

Dump him. Like Panam said, he's just gonna get more pics. You should have something first before deleting the photos, but to late now. If you don't feel comfortable and he's not gonna adjust his ways, then this relationship is over.

chrissie1101

you "accidentally" deleted them all? ALL of them? by accident? really??? really. c'mon now. and you're mad because he's not being honest with you. huh.

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I have a guy and I know he gets real pics of real vaginas from real women. He has a way with women to say the least lol, but I knew this from the beginning. He likes to look and I don't care. Hes not leaving me, I am the best thing he has ever had or will HEHE. And he likes the chase of getting them but then he's done.When he gets what he wants. I realize one day he might find someone this way...But really would you leave the woman who knows allll about you and LOVES you to death anyway. And I keep him so happy anyway.
He makes him feel good he still has game and it is all on the computer. I want him HAPPY but that is just me..

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well, unless they're CGI, all pictures of vaginas are of real women :P

sadaf

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So I have way higher standards than sayin oh ya that's cool look at other women's vaginas... I don't care. I would be a liar. Being honest is way better than being cool. standards are as high as your definition of self worth. oh but he won't leave me. Sometimes certain people that aren't willing to make a compromise should leave:D

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I went in my man phone and found a pic of vagina and other females. We only been in a relationship for 2 months. He said that he forgot it was there. He did get upset cause I went through his phone, but he did delete the pics. I am very hurt and now I can't trust him. What should I do?

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