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My boyfriend & I broke up. Now we are both online. He peaks at my profile but never sends me an email, calls or text me. I think if he was really interested in me he would call me, text me or email me. So why does he keep reviewing my profile? He know's I can see that? Why is he playing mind games?

He's not. He may not be aware that you can see who's checking your profile, or he may not care, but he's not trying to play a mind game.

One of the weird effects of breakups, especially messy ones or ones where you're the one getting dumped, is intense curiosity about the other person. Before the Internet, indulging this was difficult and possibly a felony. Now it's a matter of logging in.

That said, don't let it get to you. Living well is the best revenge, in this particular case. Go on with your life and eventually he'll go on with his.

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silkysly

No sure why you really care...

imjustagirl

Yeah..., I would think you would want to move on & not really care what he does. He's an ex for a reason, isn't he?

NuNuSays

He's just being nosey, the same way girls do guys after they break up. Not rocket science. If he wanted to get back together, then he would make contact.

Isabel

" Living well is the best revenge" One of my favorite quotes ever :)
Women are know to do the same thing to their exes. It's not an intentional mind game. It's just curiosity.

Tariana

And a hard habit to break. *breaks into Chicago song*

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It's things like this that make me wish sometimes that the Internet, or at least social networking sites, didn't exist. They can make it so much harder to move on.

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