My boyfriend keeps begging for anal. We've tried it and it was extremely painful for me and I did NOT enjoy it whatsoever. But he keeps asking me and threatening to just "stick it in my butt" anyway. It's a huge turn off and I'm getting annoyed but he keeps suggesting it anyway.
Cary McNeal answered Butthurt's question on
June 19, 2011 2:50 PM
He won't take no for an answer and he's threatened to sodomize you if you don't let him do it. Dump him. I don't care if he was kidding about sticking it in there; he's a bully with no respect for your wishes. Today it's anal sex, tomorrow it's something else. Drop-kick him out of your life.
Thanks for the question.
Curbside that @$$wipe with the rest of the garbage…, what a douche.
So Prince Charming is threatening to rape you and you're merely "annoyed"? I would be scared, newly single and getting the fuck out of Dodge. If you think him threatening to rape you is ok in any way shape or form you probably need therapy.
You might let him know that if he does it to you against your will, he'll probably be given the same courtesy in prison. Karma is a b*tch.
i think i just threw up in my mouth reading that. yah, you need to get out.
I wonder, from the way he sounds, if he even prepared for trying something so intimate. This guy has only himself on the brain, getting what he wants, when and how he wants it.
You deserve someone who will treat you with loving respect.
there's no way you staying with such a douche. He's disrespectful, careless and selfish. Be sure that if it's the case in bed, it's the case for so many things else.
Forcibly sticking his business up your a-hole aside, there is nothing more irksome than having to spend a significant amount with someone who can't take no for an answer. They NEVER give up. They keep nagging, wheedling and bullying away until you're completely worn down. Every time you stand your ground you're made to feel like the bad guy. People like that are never satisfied; they always want what they can't have.
Simply this--kick him to the curb. Anyone who threatens to stick anything into someone else does not deserve to be in a relationship.
Whats the difference between threatening anal intercourse and threatening vaginal intercourse? It's all rape to me.....
These are the men women go for, men who are abusive bullies. If he was a nice guy, you'd be F***ing him up the ass, so to speak.