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my boyfriend keeps bugging me about having a threesome. i find it weird and to me its kind of a form of cheating. should i be worried about this, especially because he says he wants to do that with his ex and me?

It sounds like your boyfriend is reaching for the stars on this one. The whole threesome thing, while it sounds awesome (and of course, can be) can also create a whole host of problems, which you may or may not foresee, both emotionally and physically.

If you choose this route, make 100% sure that you guys know what you are doing and that you have enough confidence that your relationship will survive such activities. An old friend of Mystery Man used to have threesomes with his wife and another girl. Eventually, the wife wanted to continue with the other girl but asked him to stop coming to the party. So, there you have it.

The most serious issue here is him wanting to do it with the ex, which may spell serious trouble. Explore this, as it sounds like he's looking for a way to get back together with her.

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Elizabeth

Wanting to have a threesome is nothing to be worried about (or else 99.9% of women should be worried) but...
"The third person should always be a stranger."

Nautilus

I think MM is right, he's just looking for a way to get back to her and that "reaching for the stars". But still it's up to you. Good luck.

Dovey

Don't do it. The fact that it's his ex should be enough to turn her away from the idea entirely. Sounds like a douche of a guy, he shouldn't be bugging her about something that clearly makes her uncomfortable. I'd be close to breaking up with him.

p0eticprincess

I think you should dump him just for asking. He sounds really selfish.

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here's how i got my boy to stop asking. next time he asks for a threesome, say "of course! it would be so much fun! just you, me, and that cute guy i met at the gym!" that usually shuts them up real fast.

then you have to have the unfun talk with him. tell him your feelings on it, and that you're not really into that kind of thing. or if you are, tell him you're uncomfortable with his ex being involved. and more often than not, when there is another guy involved, the idea of a threesome tends to loose its appeal to guys.

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