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My boyfriend likes to hold my hand during sex. Is that weird? What does it mean?

Is it weird? No, darling, it's called intimacy. That's kind of the point of sex. Well, one of them, anyway.

Holding your hand during sex is sweet, not weird. If the day ever comes that you're sleeping with a man who doesn't hold your hand or even make eye contact during the deed, but finishes and rolls off of you like nothing just happened, you'll be glad to have these moments in your memory, and you'll be glad that you know the difference between attentive sex and aloof sex. Me, I never saw the point of the latter.

If it bothers you, ask yourself why. Are you not feeling as close to him as he feels to you? It's something to consider.

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My boyfriend does that to me aswell and I think it's the sweetest thing ever. Why did romantic become weird for so many people nowadays?

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Wise Ass is right. It's moments like these that will give you insight in the future if the guy you're with is with you for the right reasons (ei. he really likes you). I speak from experience as far as seeing the difference. I miss those simple days of holding someone's hand or being looked at that special way. I hope to find it again soon :)

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I was hoping you'd throw in that Beatle's song as a tag!

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The hand and fingers are filled with nerves - 3 major nerves, 21 named sensory branches, 21 named muscular branches.

Holding hands and touching just ... awesome. Doing it during sex is even better.

Unless he's holding you down and grunting like a hog - that's just creepy. (unless you're into that sort of thing, then I guess that's OK).

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My bf does that, too. ^_^ I really like it. It's nice.

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It means you've got a potential keeper. If he's a good man in outside the bedroom too, treasure him. And tell him why you do.

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its amzing:)...just go with it:)!

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