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My boyfriend really really likes to put his hands down my pants (yes, IN my pants). Even if we are sitting somewhere in public. Why does he do this?? It's kinda hot, but I don't really get it. I've never dated a guy who does it as much as he does.

Let me say this very clearly: in public, your crotch, vagina, etc. is not your man's wubbie -- his, plaything. Your vagina is not a safety blanket or raggedy stuffed animal he can clutch while walking through a supermarket aisle.

I'm all for frisky public play, and rock n' roll naughtiness but keep it sporadic. That way its impact has...impact. If he wants to squeeze your butt once during a funeral -- OK. An out-of-the-blue foot-job for him during a group game of Jenga -- cool. But these things shouldn't be a habit.

Tell your man you get it, he likes you and that's great, but PDA has its limits. When your in public you prefer he hold your hands not your vagina. Or, if he wants to hold something even more personal how about your undying attention -

public crotch cuddling = a time out for him.

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My boyfriend does the same thing, but it's the other side, and he smells his finger afterward. DISGUSTING!! I always protest, but he never listens. Guys are gross.

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Ew. What the eff is wrong with you people? Get out now- he's most likely a sexual deviant and will soon molest a child in your basement.

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What the heck?? why would he do that?? and in PUBLIC? seriously, he's retarded. Your Vagina isn't a play toy. That shit ain't funny.

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Monique, why, in the hell, does he do that? Have u asked him y? Oh yeah, u gotta make him listen, so he'll stop doin' what hes doin, n'kay? wait, what r we talkin bout?

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My boyfriend does the same thing to me im 16 and im a really short girl im 4ft11in.. Lol.. But like when hes over or somthing or im over at his house and we kiss or make out he always puts his hand down the front of my shorts or pants and sometimes i try to hold his hands so he wont but he like forces his hand down my shorts and it kinda makes me feel weird but weve been together for 2 years now .. But i guess thats wat mostly alll guys doo-.- lol i guess

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how to get a boys hand down my crotch?

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How do u lead a guy into sticking his hand down the front of ur pants? I've been wondering that my whole life. He will not do it! I keep making some sex moves, but all he does is go 4 the breast, which i don't like at ALL! I want him to put his hand down my pants! BAAHH!

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My boyfriend does the same all the time. He doent rily care were we are. He does it when theres traffic. Or infront of his friends. He jus puts his hands der and tries to rub it. Even when i resist, he strts sucking my huge boobs to calm me down. I luv it though, its rily sweet buh I dont like him doing it in fornt of his friends and deir gfs.

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