People use Facebook for different purposes. Some people use it to show how hot they still are; how much fun they're still having after high school; how witty, in the know, politically astute, or pregnant they are. It's a free for all, which is part of its charm and horror. And while we can all agree Facebook should be used to stalk past lovers, we can't all agree to its other uses.

I wonder if you're bugged out that your man doesn't filter less attractive pics of himself because you feel for him or you. Not to say that pointing your coworkers to his FB pics and saying "Yup, the guy with the crossed eyes, in biker shorts sneezing is Jake," isn't a real hell. I get that. But at some point we must respect that our partners are individuals free to post or rep themselves however they feel best -- on Facebook or anywhere else.

It's a tricky situation, because we want our mates to always put their best foot forward, and these days many friends and colleagues might meet our SO online before face-to face. But what can we do, curate their pics so they only upload the most attractive and easy to explain? Yes, probably, but it's not going to happen. You can mention it in passing once and see if it triggers any response. But be careful, there's an important distinction between his comfort level and his blindside. If he is happy being Joe-goofbag online, let it go.

I'll leave you with this lesser known Shakespeare quote: 'Tis far greater to have a handsome boyfriend in real life and a goofy-dweeb-ass online, than the other way around.