My boyfriend told me that when I'm telling him my problems, he really doesn't care. He told me that it's my problem and I should fix it by myself. I mean, why wouldn't he? That's one point of being in a relationship, right? What does he simply mean by that?
What he's saying is that he's a jerk and that you should dump him.
Not directly, of course, but realistically, if you're in a relationship, one person's problem is the other person's problem as well. Basically he's saying he doesn't care about your life, just what you can do for him.
So find someone who does care. You'll be a whole lot happier.
Should I talk to a guy who keeps proposing a three-way relationship?
Should I move on from my year-long "relationship"?