Normally, I try to avoid answering questions with extremely obvious answers. But as Orwell once said, the man who sees evil and fails to act is as culpable as the man who enacts evil. And in this case, that evil would be another miserably fake-breasted woman stalking the earth.
Don't kid yourself; this is an obvious answer. If you weren't asking the question facetiously, you're either a little dim (which is nothing to be ashamed of) or have low enough self esteem that you'd let someone else determine whether you get orbs of plastic surgically inserted into your body (which is more likely, and way less forgiveable).
Chances are, people who clicked the link to read this already know what I'm going to say, because their rational minds had the same reaction mine did upon reading it: WHAT?! WHY?! WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!
To make myself PERFECTLY clear, you should NOT get elective surgery for any other reason that that YOU ELECT to get it. Anything less is selling your soul (or boobs, which are basically the same thing). If you don't want breast implants, and that threatens your relationship with your boyfriend, then guess what?
You're officially single! Happy Thanksgiving!
Ah, that was exactly the answer I wanted to hear. Also worth noting: it takes a special brand of douchebag to even suggest something so shallow.
That question makes me want to date this guy, share our deepest and most intimate secrets, and then tell him that I would be less attracted to him unless he got penis enlargement surgery.
And then kick him in the face.
Thanks Swaim, for saying what everyone knows should have been said.
WHAT? WHY? IMPLANTS? WHY? NO! NO! IMPLANTS? WHY?
... sorry >_>
Hehehe. That's what I thought too. :D
Great answer. That guy deserves to get smash on the head with a watermelon :)
And besides the whole obvious body alteration thing, he want you to go under unessessary surgery. The kind that requires global anaesthesia, ie a potentially lethal procedure, with heavy, long, painfull recovery. And all of this for something you don't even need, and more importantly, you don't want!
When was the last time he did something that risky just to please you, regardless of his feelings or needs? What? Never? Hum, I though so.
Plus, fake breast can't even double use as floaters if you get lost at sea, so they are pretty much useless...
A nice D cup will be my birtyhday present...to myself...with no suggestions, comments or forcing. He will have to escort me back home after the surgery though. He may/may not like it...but I am single (no ring), gainfully employed...and quite pretty as it is already. Wanted them since college. Then wanted them since Grad school. Now it is time.
"Umm, honey.........................SURPRISE"!
What a jerk!
If you aren't comfortable, tell him no.
Stand your guard.
He should love you just how you are.
Seriously? Tell him you'll do it if he gets a penis enlargement. He can have his surgery first.
The closest I have ever come to this situation was a guy pinched an inch on my waist and said (and I quote) "You're gonna have to lose this".
Dumped him and never looked back.
My point - WTF??!!!
One thing about assholes, they always think they're the shit.
Don't buy it.
GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you said
"that evil would be another miserably fake-breasted woman stalking the earth"..
Is it that guys don't like implants? and why? Just curious 'cause i used to think, it doesn't matter as long as they're big..
Personally, I don't find fake women attractive. A woman's natural beauty can never be enhanced by makeup, implants, or plastic surgery. If anything, all of the above can only detract from overall beauty because too much of any of them makes you look like a whore (or a monster, in some cases).
Like the windtunnel look on women who keep peeling the skin back on their faces so they don't look "old". That drives me nuts.
Just to add another data point:
Some men do like implants (there are a lot of women out there with them, probably more so in LA, and they aren't all single...), some men don't like implants, and then finally some men are just indifferent.
I should note, however, that there's a difference between looking at a woman with implants, and being with a woman with implants. I dated a very honest guy once (an engineer, honest to a fault :-) and so he told me about this lovely strip club on the east coast that had all these gorgeous Brazilian women and how some of them had implants. He said they looked great, but when you went to feel them, EEK! He didn't like them. He liked looking at them though.
I feel like implants are probably best left to certain sectors of society. If you are going in show-biz, they might be a great option. If you are going into any sort of field where cleavage counts, also probably not a bad idea. If you are only going to be exposing your chest to your significant other, you might want to stay natural. If you want biggish boobs when you go out, then use a pushup w/ padding or other natural enhancements. Cheaper, safer, and won't require follow-up surgery years down the line.
However, some people just want implants, and if you want them for yourself and you have the money and are aware of the risks and the judgement from guys that may come, and don't care what other people think, then that's fine too.
Agreed! Kick that guy to the curb; hard and fast!
Only an idiot and/or loser would make such a request of his girlfriend.
I'd have a hard time with a guy asking that of his wife, but at least there is a commitment there.
I'm sorry but implants are just TRASHY. It says "I dont have enough to offer with my conversational and intellectual skills, so I added some fake attention grabbers...check em out!!" What kind of person would be so insecure to put fake plastic cups into their body??? Its rediculous.
I have guy friends who say even push- up bras are disappointing because once you take them off there's not what you expected. Its like false advertising.
Anyway, I admit I might feel differently if I was small chested. I'm thin but I've got 34 DD's but I'd would be happy being smaller too. It sure would make running easier!
I personally got Breast Implants for myself, its something that I had planned on way before I met my boyfriend. He was supportive but said I was perfect the way I was before and loved the way my natural breasts looked. of course, his opinons mattered but the decision was for myself, something I'd have to live with forever and I took into account the risks. But the great part was he took care of me during recovery (which you will need ) and months later, I think I enjoy the results more than him. But it was purely something I wanted for myself. And I think if he had been the one to suggest it, I would have been highly offended.
wtf? Are you serious. Alright, ask him how he would like it if you asked him to get Penis Enlargement surgery. See how he likes that. What a douche.
Admittedly, I'm usually with guys on most issues, but this is ridiculous. He is just pushing you to see how far you can go. He shouldn't even be joking about that. It would make anyone feel insecure about their body.
You don't need this guy telling you to get bigger tits. You were born with what you got and he'd better be happy with it. I would consider leaving him over such a comment.
Metalhead guy...I LOVE YOU!!!
so nice to hear a guy NOT want a woman to get implants, i ams ick of my man making me feel like crap cause i have small REAL boobs and he is used to dating strippers, he can go back to that gutter trash, i guess he likes women who share their bodies.
Sounds like he'd like to be more attracted to you.