Yes, it means something. Several things, in fact:
It means that he is sexually attracted to you, so much so that he can't stop himself from making inappropriate sexual remarks about you.
It means that he's hoping you will respond to these remarks and feed his lust even more -- and it wouldn't take much. For example, when he says that you should be a porn star, even a vague reply from you like, "Yeah, maybe I should," or a joke like, "It does pay well, I hear," would be enough to turn him on. Any acknowledgment would be.
It means he is jealous that you are with his friend, not him, and the remarks are a way for him to lash out at both of you with thinly veiled insults and insinuations that you are a whore. He can't have you so he degrades you, yet all the while hoping you will somehow confirm his insinuations and turn him on.
It means he's a lousy friend to your boyfriend, and is also not afraid of your boyfriend's reaction to his remarks. He's being disrespectful to both of you, and it continues because both of you allow it.
Or maybe it just means that he's your typical horny teenager who can't control his mouth. Even if so, that doesn't negate the other reasons I've listed.
As for stopping him, your boyfriend should have put his foot down long ago. I don't know why a guy would stand by and let another guy repeatedly make suggestive remarks to his girlfriend, even in jest. I wouldn't. You just don't go there with your friends' girlfriends; it's an unspoken rule.
One or both of you need to tell this guy to STFU. I think your boyfriend should do it -- the guy is his (so-called) friend, after all -- but you can do it yourself, too. Then consider finding yourself a new boyfriend, someone with a backbone and a set of balls.
Lmao. Love the tags for this post.
And I totally agree. It's not just this guy at fault, but also your boyfriend. He needs to get a new backbone-- preferably one that isn't made of rubber.
well said.
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Absolutely! Why would a guy just ignore those kinds of comments being made about his girlfriend? Especially if they are being made by one of his friends. The boyfriend needs to man up. You shouldn't have to put up with such rudeness and disrespect. Great reply, Cary.
She does not say it's done in front of the bf, he might be unaware of it.
Let's not negate the possibility that the boyfriend may have been running his mouth to his friends about their bedroom activity... that's the first thing that came to my mind.
Either way, he's gotta go.
Your Boyfriend should put an end to this. It shouldn't be up to you. Any friend of your Boyfriend who makes comments like this wants to have sex with you. But let's face it, you know this. So unless you also want to do him, tell your bf that it's not acceptable.
Now if you want to have sex with this "friend", you should suggest a double team. Your BF may actually go for it.
I agree with Cary. Whatever you say to him needs to be cut throat. Something along the lines of, "Stop or I'll cut off your balls and shove them down your throat." Then stare him down with Jedi strength until he looks away first like the dog he is.