So let me understand the highlights of this relationship:
1) You've been engaged for six years but haven't had a wedding.
2) Your sex life isn't satisfying you.
3) He's cheated on you not once, not twice, but seven times.
Why, precisely, are you still with this poor facsimile of a man? What do you have to gain by being stuck in a relationship that isn't going anywhere and isn't making you happy?
Unless you are currently in prison for murder or oozing puss from multiple open wounds, I am certain you can get a better guy than the one you have now. Please cut this... thing... lose and find someone new, healthy, sexually alert, and able to make you happy.
Ladies, am I right or should she try to make this work?
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Wow, its time to dump this guy and move on!! Clearly he can have sex and likes it, or he wouldn't be cheating on you. So there is a lie right there he is telling you. This guy is a jerk. I am sorry but 1 or 2 times a month for sex is horrible! I know I would be unsatisfied in the extreme.
It is time for you to dump him and move on with your life. Ive dated a bunch of jerks in my time and there is nothing worse than knowing that a guy isn't that into you. Because any guy that isn't into you sexually, that doesn't want to commit fully to you, who cheats on you--that means he isn't that interested in you. I know the horrible feeling knowing that and staying with a guy. its hard to move forward and cut that guy out but its so worth it. Don't look back at your life and see that you wasted it being unhappy.
even in prison or with open wounds... probably could get someone better. dump his sorry ass and move on.
Yep, no point in sticking it out. I know a poor woman who ended up married to a guy she kept breaking up/getting back together with (bad sign to start with). Said guy cheats on her every time she turns her back, but she's unwilling to break it off because they've known each other their whole lives and would definitely break apart their social networks if they separated. Shitty situation all around, but the point is that it's even worse to stay in a shitty, lie of a relationship that's not doing anyone any favors.
SEVEN TIMES??? If you cheat on me once we're done. I know some people who forgive one indiscrection...okay. But seven?! No, no, no. You are wasting your time with this guy. He neither loves nor respects you. Forget the lack of sex, you have bigger issues here. You deserve better than this. I don't know you but I know you deserve better because NO ONE deserves a partner like this guy. Run, don't walk.
Well...in actuality, if he is not maintaining his diabetes properly, it is quite possible that 8 years of dealing with the disease is affecting his manly abilities. The disease may not have affected him in the first years, explaining the ability to cheat and remain active, but uncontrolled diabetes after a sustained period can begin to render a man impotent. With that said, I am not advocating that the OP stay with him. However, I wanted to inject some facts to help her decision.
MM is right.
Yep...he's a Massengill.
Been there done that, sadly.
Time to kick the long time disrespectful liar to the curb.
Run 7x as fast from this S.O.B! Sadly to say he told you 7x, He wanted to f**c someone else.
I agree with what everyone is saying above and also want to add that if he is making excuses not to have sex with you, it's most likely because he is getting it somewhere else. Men never deny sex. So consider this gettting cheated on 7 times. Sorry honey, move on.