Yes, you should be worried your fiance is only going to community college. Wait, was that the question? Let me re-read.

Oh, about the flirting. Let me start by paraphrasing an apt quote by the noted psychologist Stuart Smalley, "It's easier to wear slippers than carpet the world."

This of course means, we can't control the elements or environment in which we are placed. All we can do is control and manage ourselves. Using this sound logic, Smalley and I can say to you: you can't stop women from flirting with your man, but your man can control how he reacts to it (and in some ways how open he is to being flirted with).

If you are worried about your fiancé gaining more than knowledge at college it probably isn't because he is going to University of Cancun. It's because he may be someone who draws women in and flirts back with them.

If this is the case, you should express your concern that he does this. Perhaps he isn't aware of it. Or perhaps he is and hopes you don't notice or mind. Whatever the case may be it's probably important to speak up. Either your concerns are stemming from insecurities and are unfounded or, he's a hard-core flirt.

Bottom line: You can't lock up the co-ed, their pretty faces, nice boobs, and flirtatious laughs, "Oh Joey, you're so good at Women's Lit. Can I feel your biceps?" You can only lock in your expectations of your man and see if he concurs.

The end of summer is all about making sure you're on the same page before he opens page-one this semester.

Side note: I did a few years of community college myself. Ain't nothing wrong with it.